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Oklahoma’s divorce professionals, verified.

Real attorneys, mediators, CDFAs and therapists — credentials checked against Oklahoma’s own official directories, not paid placement.

Every professional below is currently at the Listed tier: credentials independently verified from an official Oklahoma source, automatically included whether they’ve opted into The Cusp or not — the same way a bar association directory works. Nobody here has paid for placement, and none of them have published pricing or been reviewed yet.

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What “verified” means on this page

Not every check is the same check, and most directories hide that. Every listing below says which kind it was, and the date we did it — because a license check is a photograph, not a guarantee. Somebody confirmed in August can be suspended in September.

  • State registerChecked against the state’s own licensing, court or bar record.
  • Issuing bodyChecked against the organization that grants this credential — authoritative for the credential, but it is their own list.
  • Membership listingA membership directory. Joining is voluntary, and this is not a license check.
  • Self-reportedTaken from this person’s own website. Nobody independent confirmed it, and we are re-checking these against an official register.
  • Source linkedChecked against the source linked, which is not a state register.

Nobody paid to be listed here, and nobody can. Listings are not for sale, and no professional on this page has paid us anything to appear on it or to appear higher on it. If we are ever paid in connection with anyone listed here, it will say so on this page, next to that listing. Most of these were confirmed against a state register. A small number were not, and rather than quietly presenting those as equivalent, they are marked and we are re-checking them.

Family law & divorce attorneys

Verified via the state’s official bar / attorney licensing source, filtered to family law practice and active status.

Cleveland County
Evan Andrew Taylor
Evan A. Taylor Law Office, PLLC · Cleveland County (Norman)
OBA #20865 — Active Member, Good Standing (admitted 2005)
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Bar Association — Member Verification Search
Comanche County
Clay Rankin Hillis
Clay Hillis Law Firm · Comanche County (Lawton)
OBA #15558 — Active Member, Good Standing (admitted 1993)
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Bar Association — Member Verification Search
Garfield County
Terri Kay Blakley
Long, Claypole & Blakley Law, PLC · Garfield County (Enid)
OBA #14186 — Active Member, Good Standing (admitted 1990)
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Bar Association — Member Verification Search
Clint Aaron Claypole
Long, Claypole & Blakley Law, PLC · Garfield County (Enid)
OBA #30045 — Active Member, Good Standing (admitted 2010)
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Bar Association — Member Verification Search
Payne County
James Von Murray
Murray Law Firm · Payne County (Stillwater)
OBA #11448 — Active Member, Good Standing (admitted 1985)
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Bar Association — Member Verification Search
Tulsa County
David Alan Tracy
Tulsa Family Law Center, PLLC · Tulsa County (Tulsa)
OBA #10501 — Active Member, Good Standing (admitted 1983)
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Bar Association — Member Verification Search
Washington County
Martin Ferguson Meason
Meason & Morris Law · Washington County (Bartlesville)
OBA #19883 — Active Member, Good Standing (admitted 2003)
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Bar Association — Member Verification Search
Christopher David Morris
Meason & Morris Law · Washington County (Bartlesville)
OBA #30406 — Active Member, Good Standing (admitted 2011)
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Bar Association — Member Verification Search

Certified mediators

Verified via an official court-connected or state-recognized mediator roster.

Carter County
Jaxie Johnston
Early Settlement Mediation — South Central Program · Carter County (Ardmore)
Director, Early Settlement South Central — family and divorce mediation across seven counties
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Supreme Court ADR System
Comanche County
Sarah Head
Early Settlement Mediation — Southwest Program · Comanche County (Lawton)
Director, Early Settlement Southwest — free family and divorce mediation across 12 southwest counties
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Supreme Court ADR System
Garfield County
Michael Nalley
Early Settlement Mediation — Northwest Program · Garfield County (Enid)
Director, Early Settlement Northwest — divorce, paternity and child permanency mediation across 11 counties
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Supreme Court ADR System
Pontotoc County
Jorjia Cash
Early Settlement Mediation — East Central Program · Pontotoc County (Ada)
Director, Early Settlement East Central — family/divorce mediation using AOC-certified volunteer mediators
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Supreme Court ADR System
Tulsa County
LeiLani Armstrong
Early Settlement Mediation — Tulsa Program · Tulsa County (Tulsa)
Program Director, Early Settlement Tulsa — an Oklahoma Supreme Court ADR System mediation center accepting family/divorce cases
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma Supreme Court ADR System

Certified Divorce Financial Analysts (CDFAs)

Pulled from the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts’ own public directory of credentialed CDFA professionals.

Cleveland County
Amy M. Million
Modern Divorce Solutions · Cleveland County (Norman)
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA); also AAMS, BFA
Listed
Issuing bodyChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts — CDFA Profile
Oklahoma County
Carol Ringrose Alexander
Retirement Investment Advisors, Inc. · Oklahoma County (Oklahoma City)
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) since 2005; also CFP
Listed
Issuing bodyChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts — CDFA Profile
Tulsa County
Dana Curtis Milligan
Curtis Milligan, PLLC · Tulsa County (Tulsa)
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA); also CPA, CFE
Listed
Issuing bodyChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts — CDFA Profile

Therapists & counselors, divorce/family focus

License verified active against the state’s official license-lookup tool.

Cleveland County
Cassandra C. Bournival
Cassandra Bournival LMFT LLC · Cleveland County (Norman)
Licensed Marital and Family Therapist, license LMFT01306 — Active
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma State Board of Behavioral Health Licensure
Comanche County
Leanne Perales
Private practice · Comanche County (Lawton)
Licensed Marital and Family Therapist, license 12028 — Active
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma State Board of Behavioral Health Licensure
Oklahoma County
Pamela Pettigrew
Private practice · Oklahoma County (Oklahoma City)
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, license 1827 — Active
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma State Board of Licensed Social Workers
Payne County
Marie Abraham-Robinson
MRobinson Counseling LLC · Payne County (Stillwater)
Licensed Marital and Family Therapist, license LMFT01021 — Active
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma State Board of Behavioral Health Licensure
Tulsa County
Nikola K. Dunkelberg
Private practice · Tulsa County (Tulsa)
Licensed Marital and Family Therapist, license LMFT01341 — Active
Listed
State registerChecked 19 Aug 2026Verified via Oklahoma State Board of Behavioral Health Licensure

Not included yet. Mediators: Oklahoma doesn’t publish a searchable list of individually certified family mediators — the state ADR System offers only a program finder by zip code. Each person here is named by that official state site as the Director of a specific Early Settlement center that provides divorce mediation, but their personal certification number couldn’t be independently confirmed. To check an individual mediator, contact the regional Early Settlement program directly.

Not included yet. Attorneys: Oklahoma doesn’t certify legal specialties, so no official source can confirm an attorney "specializes" in family law — the Bar confirms license and good standing, and the family-law focus noted here comes from each firm’s own site. The Bar’s search also has no permanent per-attorney link, so the source link is the search page; entering the surname reproduces the record.

Not included yet. CDFAs: Three CDFAs, all in the Oklahoma City, Tulsa and Norman corridor. IDFA’s search runs on JavaScript behind a "prove you’re human" check we don’t work around, so only individually-indexed profiles could be confirmed.

What these professionals typically cost in Oklahoma

Oklahoma falls in the South region on The Cusp’s cost model — illustrative, member-reported ranges, not an official fee survey or a quote.

ItemReported range
Attorney, uncontested$800–$2,800
Attorney, contested$3,500–$16,000+
Mediator, full case$80–$250/hr

See the main directory page for the full regional cost breakdown across all four professional types.

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Sources last checked19 August 2026
Page published19 August 2026
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