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How to file for divorce in your state

Fifty state-by-state divorce kits — forms, deadlines and filing costs.

Every state gives you the forms for free. None of them give you the order, the real deadlines, or the specific traps that get filings rejected. That’s what these are.

Each kit is built from that state’s own courts and statutes — not a generic national template with the state name swapped in. Answer a short quiz, get your exact form list with real download links, and a deadline calculator that turns the rules into actual dates on your calendar. What it costs to file in your state →

Every kit now opens with the same four things. Which route your case is on and the conditions the rule actually sets for it; every form that route uses, grouped the way your state groups them, linked to the official PDF where your state publishes one; whether you may file electronically, must, or file on paper — which differs by state and almost nobody sets out; and the sequence, step by step, with what each step costs.

A note on what that last one is worth. Twenty-five states leave e-filing to your choice. Three require it of you. Eighteen have you file on paper or keep their system closed to you. Four depend on your county or parish. Every one of those answers was read on the state’s own source.

Not ready to file yet? Most people arrive here before the paperwork is the problem. The first thirty days is the order of operations and what can wait. Temporary orders is what a court can do about rent and the children while the case runs. Free and low-cost help is where to look if a lawyer is out of reach, and doing it without a lawyer is an honest account of when that works and when it does not. Is there an alimony formula in my state? answers the question almost everyone asks next.

Before you pick a state: do you even have to e-file?

Where the choice is yours, where the court will not let you e-file at all, and “mandatory” almost always means mandatory for attorneys. All fifty, side by side →

Where these come from

Every state publishes its own divorce forms free, and each kit is built from that publication rather than from a national template. Three examples you can check without leaving this page: California’s own self-help divorce pages, the Connecticut Judicial Branch form library, and Florida’s family law forms. The kits add what those pages do not: the order, the deadlines, and the errors that get a filing rejected. If a kit ever disagrees with the court, the court is right — and we want to know, at thecusp.app/corrections.

Florida

Florida Divorce Kit

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Connecticut

Connecticut Divorce Kit

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New York

New York Divorce Kit

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Massachusetts

Massachusetts Divorce Kit

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California

California Divorce Kit

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Ohio

Ohio Divorce Kit

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New Jersey

New Jersey Divorce Kit

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Pennsylvania

Pennsylvania Divorce Kit

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Texas

Texas Divorce Kit

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Illinois

Illinois Divorce Kit

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Washington

Washington Divorce Kit

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Arizona

Arizona Divorce Kit

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North Carolina

North Carolina Divorce Kit

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Georgia

Georgia Divorce Kit

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Virginia

Virginia Divorce Kit

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Michigan

Michigan Divorce Kit

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Colorado

Colorado Divorce Kit

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Maryland

Maryland Divorce Kit

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Minnesota

Minnesota Divorce Kit

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Wisconsin

Wisconsin Divorce Kit

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Tennessee

Tennessee Divorce Kit

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Missouri

Missouri Divorce Kit

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Indiana

Indiana Divorce Kit

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South Carolina

South Carolina Divorce Kit

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Alabama

Alabama Divorce Kit

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Louisiana

Louisiana Divorce Kit

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Kentucky

Kentucky Divorce Kit

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Oregon

Oregon Divorce Kit

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Oklahoma

Oklahoma Divorce Kit

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Nevada

Nevada Divorce Kit

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Utah

Utah Divorce Kit

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Iowa

Iowa Divorce Kit

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Kansas

Kansas Divorce Kit

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Arkansas

Arkansas Divorce Kit

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Mississippi

Mississippi Divorce Kit

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New Mexico

New Mexico Divorce Kit

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Nebraska

Nebraska Divorce Kit

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West Virginia

West Virginia Divorce Kit

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Idaho

Idaho Divorce Kit

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Hawaii

Hawaii Divorce Kit

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New Hampshire

New Hampshire Divorce Kit

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Maine

Maine Divorce Kit

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Montana

Montana Divorce Kit

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Rhode Island

Rhode Island Divorce Kit

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Delaware

Delaware Divorce Kit

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South Dakota

South Dakota Divorce Kit

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North Dakota

North Dakota Divorce Kit

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Alaska

Alaska Divorce Kit

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Vermont

Vermont Divorce Kit

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Wyoming

Wyoming Divorce Kit

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The filing fee runs from $83 in Virginia — in 4 of its 120 circuit courts; most charge $89 or $94 — to $435 in California
Cost, waiting period, residency rule, e-filing access and form count, side by side for all fifty states — every figure sourced.
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Sources last checked14 August 2026
Page published14 August 2026
This date covers this index page only, and each state carries its own. Open any kit and it shows the date that state’s forms and rules were last read; several are more recent than the date beside this paragraph, and the state page is the one to trust for that state. What this means. This is when the sources on this page were last read against their originals — statutes, court rules, official schedules — taken from the date this page was built from its sources. It is not the date the page was last edited. Adding a link or fixing a typo does not move it; re-reading the statute does. Law changes without notice, so treat anything time-sensitive as needing a fresh check. Where we get something wrong we publish it at thecusp.app/corrections with the date, what changed, and how long the error was live.
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Already divorced? See how to change a support or custody order, state by state.

Comparing what it costs to file? See the filing cost in all 50 states, lowest to highest, each traced to a statute or court fee schedule.

Not sure how to serve the papers? See who can serve divorce papers in each state, including whether you can do it yourself.

Beyond the kit: custody and county-level fees

Each state kit has companion guides. Child custody by state: what the law presumes and how judges decide.

Filing fees by county: every figure checked against the clerk’s own page. More states are added as we verify them.