Digital divorce: untangling a shared digital life
A marriage now includes an Apple ID, a family phone plan, a shared photo library, a password manager, a doorbell camera and a car that reports where it has been. Most of it keeps working exactly as it did, for both of you, until somebody changes it — and the order you change things in matters more than the changes themselves.
If there is any question of safety in your relationship, do not start by changing passwords. Advocacy organizations that work on exactly this warn that visible security changes tell the other person you know, and that this is a point at which behavior escalates. The sequence below has a safe-situation version and a version for when it is not safe, and they are different. If you are in danger, start here instead.
The Sequencing Question: Document Before You Disconnect
Safety organizations do not treat ‘change every password immediately’ as universally good advice. Abruptly cutting off a monitoring or controlling partner’s access can itself trigger escalation, so the guidance is to plan the order of changes around safety, often from a device the other person doesn’t control, and often with an advocate.
Making visible security changes can alert an abusive partner and provoke escalation.
The National Network to End Domestic Violence’s Safety Net project (techsafety.org) warns that changing settings can tip off a monitoring partner, who may respond by demanding access or becoming more abusive.
Making changes will often alert the other person. They might force you to unlock your phone or share your passwords. They might become more abusive.
NNEDV Safety Net Project, ‘Passwords: Increasing Your Security,’ techsafety.org
Safety Net recommends changing a password from a device the abusive partner does not monitor, such as a public/library computer.
Rather than change credentials on a phone or computer that may itself be compromised, the guidance is to use a separate, unmonitored device.
If you think someone knows your password, changing it from a device that isn’t being monitored by that person (such as a library computer) can keep them from gaining further access to your account.
NNEDV Safety Net Project, ‘Passwords: Increasing Your Security,’ techsafety.org
The Coalition Against Stalkerware explicitly warns that removing detected stalkerware can escalate risk, and recommends involving an advocate rather than a purely technical fix.
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Because a stalkerware operator sees changes on the monitored device, an abrupt uninstall can alert them. The Coalition frames the response as a safety-planning question, not just a technical one, and points people toward domestic violence advocates and safe devices.
Coalition Against Stalkerware, ‘Information for Media,’ stopstalkerware.org
A regional domestic violence agency’s technology safety guide advises removing shared account/device access only when safe, ideally with advocate support, after documenting evidence.
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The guide instructs survivors to save texts, call logs, emails and voicemails and store copies securely before addressing shared Family Sharing, Google Family, phone plans, or vehicle telematics, and to remove shared access ‘only when it is safe and expected, or… with an advocate’s support.’
Review Family Sharing, Google Family, phone plans, and vehicle telematics. Remove shared access only when it is safe and expected, or do it with an advocate’s support.
What to actually do
- Before changing any shared account, ask: could this change be detected by the other person, and could that detection increase danger? If yes, slow down and involve a domestic violence advocate or hotline before acting.
- Document what you can safely document first (see the Evidence topic), using a device the other person doesn’t have access to.
- Make security changes from a device/network the other person does not monitor, e.g., a library or workplace computer, not a shared home computer or a phone that may carry stalkerware.
- Where safety is not a concern, the order can be faster and more direct; where it is a concern, treat every account change as a safety-planning decision, not just an IT task.
Stalkerware and Covert Monitoring
Stalkerware is commercially available software installed on a device, typically requiring physical access, that lets another person covertly monitor messages, location, calls, browsing, and more without meaningful consent. Advocacy organizations caution that detection and removal both carry risk and should be handled carefully.
The Coalition Against Stalkerware’s working definition centers on lack of consent and lack of notification.
Software, made available directly to individuals, that enables a remote user to monitor the activities on another user’s device without that user’s consent and without explicit, persistent notification
Coalition Against Stalkerware, ‘Information for Media,’ stopstalkerware.org
The Coalition cites a U.S. statistic that roughly one in four stalking victims report being stalked using some form of technology.
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Sourced by the Coalition to the Stalking Prevention Awareness & Resource Center (SPARC).
1 in 4 victims report being stalked through some form of technology
Coalition Against Stalkerware, citing Stalking Prevention Awareness & Resource Center (SPARC)
Security-vendor detection counts (Kaspersky, Malwarebytes) put stalkerware-app detections in the tens of thousands over a ten-month period in 2020, per Coalition-cited figures.
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The Coalition cites Kaspersky recording more than 48,500 stalkerware installations from January-October 2020, and Malwarebytes recording about 43,000 monitoring-app detections over a similar period. These are vendor telemetry counts, not a survey of the general population, so they measure detections on scanned devices, not overall prevalence.
Coalition Against Stalkerware, citing Kaspersky and Malwarebytes data
The Coalition’s own recommended detection steps include enabling two-factor authentication, reviewing app permissions, and using trusted antivirus/anti-stalkerware scanning tools alongside its Anti-Stalkerware Advice Guide.
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Kaspersky reported over 31,000 stalkerware cases identified in 2023, a year-over-year increase cited by the Coalition’s member.
Coalition Against Stalkerware member reporting (Kaspersky 2023 data), via stopstalkerware.org
Modern stalkerware is designed to run invisibly with no icon or notification; the Coalition’s definition specifically emphasizes operation ‘without explicit, persistent notification.’ Absence of obvious symptoms is not proof of absence.
What to actually do
- If stalkerware is suspected, contact a domestic violence hotline or advocate before uninstalling anything on a device that may be monitored — uninstalling can itself notify the monitoring party.
- Use a separate, unmonitored device (not the suspected device) to research, contact advocates, and make an account-security plan.
- Consider that a factory reset removes most consumer stalkerware but also removes evidence of it; discuss preserving evidence with an advocate or law enforcement first if documentation may matter later.
Legal Exposure for Accessing a Spouse’s Accounts
Several federal statutes can expose a spouse to civil and criminal liability for accessing the other spouse’s email, computer, or communications without permission: the Stored Communications Act, the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act, and the federal Wiretap Act (part of the Electronic Communications Privacy Act). Courts have generally rejected the argument that marriage itself creates an exception.
The Stored Communications Act (18 U.S.C. § 2701) creates criminal and civil liability for intentionally accessing stored electronic communications, like email, without authorization.
The Computer Fraud and Abuse Act (18 U.S.C. § 1030) creates civil and criminal liability for unauthorized access to a computer, and has been cited alongside the SCA in spousal-access disputes.
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In Miller v. Meyers, W.D. Ark. Case No. 09-cv-6103 (Jan. 21, 2011), a spouse who used a keylogger to access the other spouse’s email during divorce proceedings was found civilly liable under the Stored Communications Act; the court rejected the argument that the divorce settlement resolved the federal claim, and no marital/spousal exception was recognized.
The defendant admitted accessing the plaintiff’s email without permission; the court found he ‘clearly did not have permission to access plaintiff’s email account’ and granted summary judgment for the plaintiff on the SCA claim. A separate intentional-infliction-of-emotional-distress claim was rejected as not sufficiently extreme conduct.
Federal appellate courts have split historically on whether the Wiretap Act has an implied spousal exception, but the trend has been to reject it. Simpson v. Simpson (5th Cir. 1974) found an implied exemption; Glazner v. Glazner (11th Cir. 2003) expressly rejected Simpson’s reasoning, holding the statute gives ‘any person’ a cause of action with no marital carve-out.
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Per the AAML article ‘Digital Espionage in Matrimonial Cases,’ Glazner v. Glazner, 347 F.3d 1212 (11th Cir. 2003), held the ECPA’s plain language ‘makes no distinction between married and unmarried persons.’
Epstein v. Epstein (7th Cir. 2016) allowed a husband’s federal wiretap claim against his wife to proceed after she set up auto-forwarding on his email account; and Klumb v. Goan (E.D. Tenn. 2012) held a wife liable under the federal Wiretap Act and a state wiretap statute for installing spyware on her husband’s computers, awarding statutory and punitive damages plus attorney’s fees.
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A New Jersey court in White v. White held that a state wiretap-act analog ‘applies to unauthorized access of electronic communications of one’s spouse,’ rejecting an implied spousal exemption because the legislature had not created one — though on the facts the court found no violation because the emails accessed were already in post-transmission storage rather than intercepted in transit.
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White v. White, 344 N.J. Super. 211, 781 A.2d 85 (Ch. Div. 2001)
Courts applying the SCA and the federal Wiretap Act have repeatedly rejected the idea of an implied spousal exception; Glazner v. Glazner held the statute gives ‘any person’ a right to sue with no marital carve-out, and Miller v. Meyers held a spouse liable under the SCA for unauthorized email access during a divorce.
Evidence: Accessing Accounts Can Backfire
Material obtained by accessing a spouse’s accounts without authorization is not a reliable shortcut to a stronger case. Depending on the jurisdiction and how it was obtained, it can be excluded, and the person who obtained it can face significant sanctions in the family court case itself, separate from any federal liability.
In CC v. AR (N.Y. Sup. Ct. 2018), a husband who installed spyware on his wife’s iPhone to intercept her communications had his pleadings for financial relief struck as a sanction — one of the most severe sanctions available in a matrimonial case.
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Several states have statutes that specifically bar unlawfully intercepted electronic communications from being used as evidence, including Connecticut, Kansas, Maryland, New York, and Pennsylvania, per the AAML article; and federal law (18 U.S.C. § 2515) requires exclusion of unlawfully intercepted wire or oral communications, though the article notes that provision does not, by its own terms, extend to intercepted ‘electronic communications’ such as email.
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New York courts have distinguished lawful ‘clandestine imaging’ of static/stored data from unlawful real-time interception: in Byrne v. Byrne (N.Y. Sup. Ct. 1996) and Moore v. Moore (N.Y. Sup. Ct. 2008), copying data already stored on a computer’s hard drive was found not to be unlawful interception, and the resulting evidence was allowed; but in Gurevich v. Gurevich (N.Y. Sup. Ct. 2009), a wife’s use of her husband’s password to log into his email account was found to make the resulting evidence inadmissible under New York’s suppression statute.
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Unauthorized access can expose the accessing spouse to federal civil liability — actual damages, statutory damages, punitive damages, and attorney’s fees — separate from whatever the material shows about the other spouse.
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The snooping spouse’s unauthorized access of the hacked spouse’s account also exposes the snooping spouse to federal liability for the snooping spouse’s actual damages or losses, statutory damages, punitive damages, and attorney’s fees.
How the evidence was obtained can determine whether it is admissible at all, and can trigger sanctions (as in CC v. AR, where the accessing spouse’s own pleadings were struck) or federal liability that has nothing to do with what the evidence shows.
CC v. AR, 100 N.Y.S.3d 609 (N.Y. Sup. Ct. 2018); AAML, ‘Digital Espionage in Matrimonial Cases’
What to actually do
- Do not access a spouse’s password-protected accounts to gather evidence; consult a family law attorney about lawful discovery tools instead.
- If you already possess material obtained this way, disclose the circumstances to your attorney before trying to use it — courts have sanctioned the party who obtained it, independent of federal liability.
The 2FA and Account-Recovery Trap
Two-factor authentication and account recovery are designed to prove you are you — but when a shared phone number, a shared device, or recovery questions the other person knows are on the account, they can instead let the other person get back in, or lock you out.
A domestic violence agency’s guide recommends switching from SMS-based 2FA codes to an authenticator app when the other person may have access to your text messages.
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Use an authenticator app rather than text codes if the person can access your messages.
ACADV, ‘Digital Safety 101: Protect Your Devices When Abuse Is Involved’
The same guide recommends removing shared recovery information from account settings.
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Remove shared phone numbers, alternate email addresses, and old devices from the account recovery settings.
ACADV, ‘Digital Safety 101: Protect Your Devices When Abuse Is Involved’
A password change alone does not help if 2FA codes still go to a shared or accessible phone number, or if the account’s recovery email/phone/security questions are still ones the other person controls or knows — either can be used to regain access or lock the account owner out.
ACADV, ‘Digital Safety 101: Protect Your Devices When Abuse Is Involved’
What to actually do
- Audit every account’s 2FA method: switch from SMS to an authenticator app where the phone number is shared or accessible to the other person.
- Update recovery phone numbers and recovery/alternate emails on each account, removing any tied to the other person or a shared device.
- Change security-question answers where the other person would know the true answers (mother’s maiden name, first pet, etc.) — pick answers only you would know, not necessarily true ones.
Social Media During Divorce
Social media content is routinely gathered as evidence in family law disputes, though the academic literature suggests it functions mainly as a new delivery mechanism for the same kinds of conduct evidence courts have always considered, rather than something that changes case outcomes by itself.
A 2016 law review article by Marcia Canavan and Eva Kolstad, published in the Whittier Journal of Child & Family Advocacy, examined social media evidence’s actual effect on family law case outcomes and concluded the underlying conduct — not the medium — is what influences decisions.
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The authors’ broader thesis: ‘the use of social media evidence[s] in family law cases changes nothing’ in a fundamental sense — it modernizes, rather than transforms, the kind of conduct evidence already used in family court.
it seems mostly likely that it is the Bad Behavior that keeps influencing court decisions, not the method of delivery
In their small case sample, the authors found social media evidence appeared to matter in five cases and probably did not matter in two.
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In five cases the social media evidence presented seemed to matter… In two cases, it probably did not matter.
The article reports a figure that approximately 81% of a set of surveyed divorce attorneys observed increased use of social media evidence, but this figure originates from a third-party attorney survey the article cites rather than from the authors’ own case study.
Canavan & Kolstad, citing a survey of divorce attorneys, AALS conference paper
Deletion of a post does not undo the fact that others may have already screenshotted, saved, or been served the content, and in litigation, deleting potentially relevant material after a dispute has arisen can itself raise separate spoliation concerns. (See ‘What People Get Wrong’ myths for the deletion issue generally.)
What to actually do
- Assume anything posted publicly or semi-publicly (including to mutual friends) could be seen by the other party or their attorney.
- Treat social media as another form of the conduct evidence already relevant to a case — what you post reflects the same behavior a court would otherwise learn about another way.
- Talk to your own attorney about your jurisdiction’s specific rules before deleting anything, since a preservation obligation may already apply once a case is underway.
The Practical Checklist
There is no single universal order, but the sources above converge on a consistent shape: document first, assess safety second, then act — going faster where there is no safety concern and slower, with an advocate, where there is.
What to actually do
- 1. Assess safety first. If there is any concern about coercive control, monitoring, or retaliation, contact a domestic violence hotline or advocate (e.g., the National Domestic Violence Hotline, thehotline.org / 800-799-7233) before making visible account changes.
- 2. Where safety allows, document what you may need: save texts, emails, call logs, and screenshots to a secure location tied to an account/device the other person does not control (per ACADV guidance on safe documentation).
- 3. Identify every shared account, device, and service (see the accounts checklist) before touching any of them, so nothing is missed or half-changed in a way that tips off the other person.
- 4. In a safe situation: change passwords, update recovery information (phone/email/security questions), switch 2FA to an authenticator app, then leave/remove shared Family Sharing, cloud photo libraries, calendars, password managers, smart-home access, streaming and shopping accounts in whatever order is convenient.
- 5. In an unsafe situation: make the first changes from a device/network the other person doesn’t monitor; change passwords and recovery info before touching visible shared services (which are more likely to alert the other person); remove smart-home/camera and location-sharing access last and, if possible, with an advocate’s input on timing, since these changes are often the most visible in real time.
- 6. Do not access the other person’s private accounts to gather evidence, regardless of the situation — this creates federal legal exposure and can get evidence excluded or backfire as a sanction (see Legal Exposure and Evidence topics).
- 7. After separating shared accounts, check for lingering access: old linked devices, app-specific passwords, third-party apps still connected via ‘Sign in with Google/Apple,’ and shared payment methods.
What People Get Wrong
Several assumptions about digital privacy and evidence during divorce are inaccurate or overstated, according to vendor documentation and the legal sources above.
Google’s own documentation states that turning off sharing on a photo album does not delete copies the other person already downloaded or saved: ‘If someone already downloaded or copied photos or videos you shared, turning off sharing will not delete those downloads or copies.’
Google Photos Help, ‘Stop sharing an album, and manage settings’
Courts have rejected the argument that being married, or being on a shared account, creates a legal right to access the other person’s communications without authorization; the Stored Communications Act and Wiretap Act have been applied against spouses who accessed the other’s accounts, with no recognized marital exception (Glazner v. Glazner, Miller v. Meyers).
Family Sharing and location-sharing systems generally notify or make visible to other members when sharing status changes — Apple’s Family Sharing guidance and Verizon Family’s controls describe location and sharing settings as something other members can see and manage, meaning a change in sharing status is not necessarily invisible to the person who loses visibility. (Where this matters for safety, see the Sequencing topic on documenting before disconnecting.)
The Canavan & Kolstad study found social media evidence (public or semi-public posts, not necessarily from shared accounts) is regularly introduced in family law cases and can influence outcomes, because courts treat it as ordinary conduct evidence, not a special new category exempt from consideration.
Every shared account, and what the other person can actually see
The third column is the vendor’s own documented process, not our description of it. Read the safety section above this table before you change anything.
| Service | What they can see or do | How it is separated | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| Apple ID / Family Sharing | The Family Sharing organizer and other members can see shared purchases, subscriptions, shared photo albums, shared calendars, and (if location sharing is on) each other’s location via Find My. Apple Cash Family balances are tied to the organizer. | A member can remove themselves via Settings > Family > [Your name] > ‘Stop Using Family Sharing’ (iPhone/iPad), the equivalent Mac path, or by signing in at account.apple.com and selecting ‘Disconnect Account.’ The organizer can remove a member via Settings > Family > [Member’s name] > ‘Remove [name] from Sharing Group.’ Downloaded content is not automatically removed from devices after leaving. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Find My iPhone / Apple location sharing | Anyone you’ve shared your location with in Find My can see your real-time location; Family Sharing members can locate each other’s devices by default unless location sharing is individually turned off. | Apple’s Personal Safety User Guide recommends using the built-in Safety Check feature (Settings > Privacy & Security > Safety Check on iPhone) to review and stop all sharing at once via ‘Emergency Reset,’ or to review sharing item by item. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Google Family Link | A parent/guardian using Family Link can see a linked device’s location, set and monitor screen time and app usage, and control which apps can be downloaded or how they’re used. It works only on Android devices, Chromebooks, or compatible Fitbit devices, not iPhones/iPads. | Google’s support documentation describes setup and monitoring; removing supervision is managed through account/family settings in the Family Link app (specific unsupervision steps are in Google’s linked account-management help beyond the ‘Get started’ guide). | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Find My Device / Google location sharing (Find Hub, Google Maps location sharing) | Anyone you’ve shared your real-time location with via Google Maps location sharing, or anyone with access via Find Hub’s device-sharing feature, can see your location or the location of shared devices. | Google’s support pages (‘Manage your Location Sharing settings’ and ‘Share & manage devices with Find Hub’) document how to review who you’re sharing with and stop sharing with specific people or devices from the Google Maps or Find Hub app settings. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Family cellular plans (e.g., Verizon Family) | On Verizon Family, the Account Owner or Manager/Guardian has ‘full visibility of the Member and Child locations,’ up to 7 days of location history, and can view call and text activity (numbers, times, frequency) for lines on the plan. With the paid Verizon Family Plus tier, they can also see web and app activity when a companion app is installed. | Guardian-level lines can control whether they share their location with other Verizon Family users via app settings. A line holder age 18+ can delete their own Verizon Family profile in the Companion app to stop sharing; the Account Owner/Manager can remove Child and Member roles from the plan through profile management. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Shared cloud photo libraries (iCloud Shared Photo Library) | Participants in an iCloud Shared Photo Library can view, add to, and (depending on settings) edit or delete photos and videos in the shared library. | Apple’s documented steps: Settings > Apps > Photos > Shared Library > ‘Leave Shared Library’ (iPhone/iPad) or Photos app Settings > Shared Library tab > ‘Leave Shared Library’ (Mac). Members who were in the library more than 7 days keep all shared assets copied to their Personal Library on leaving; those in under 7 days keep only what they personally contributed, though this can be adjusted at exit. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Shared cloud photo libraries (Google Photos shared albums / partner sharing) | A partner or album member can view, and depending on settings, comment on or save shared photos and videos. | Google’s documented steps to fully stop sharing an album: remove all album members individually via the album’s ‘More’ menu > ‘Remove person,’ and turn off link sharing in the album’s sharing settings. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Shared calendars (Google Calendar) | Depending on the sharing permission set, a person you’ve shared your calendar with can see only your free/busy status, full event details (names, times, locations, descriptions), or be able to edit events and reshare the calendar. | Google’s documented steps: open Google Calendar > ‘My calendars’ > select the calendar’s three-dot menu > ‘Settings and sharing’ > under ‘Shared with,’ click ‘Remove’ next to the person’s name. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Shared password managers (1Password Families) | Family members with access to a shared vault can see and use every credential stored in that vault; a Family Organizer additionally has elevated administrative permissions, including the ability to manage or remove other members. | 1Password’s own guidance (‘Parting ways: How to divide a shared 1Password account’) recommends: first evaluate and potentially downgrade the other person’s elevated permissions (e.g., from Family Organizer to Family Member) so they cannot remove you or delete the account; let each person move/export their private information to a new individual account; then remove the other person’s membership from the family. Afterward, change any passwords that were shared, and if an Emergency Kit was shared, change the account password and Secret Key. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Smart home cameras and doorbells (Ring) | A Ring shared user’s capabilities depend on the access level granted (Advanced, Standard, Limited, or Installer), which can include live video view, recordings, and notifications for shared devices. | Ring’s documented steps: in the Ring app, go to Device Settings > Shared Access, select (or manage, for multiple locations) the shared user, then tap the trash icon or ‘Remove User’ to revoke all access, or toggle off individual devices to restrict partial access; save changes. Ring also notes access should be removed from both the Ring app and any linked Alexa devices. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Smart home hub and cameras (Google Home / Nest) | A Google Home ‘Admin’ can add/remove people and devices and check device and home-wide history, including camera and lock activity and presence history. A ‘Member’ with Activity permission can view video/audio captured on cameras and home-wide activity like presence history. | Google’s documented steps: in the Google Home app, tap your profile picture > ‘Home settings’ > tap the profile icon of the person to remove > ‘Remove this person.’ Voice-assistant devices in the home remain in the home but are unlinked from the removed person’s account. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Joint Amazon accounts / Amazon Household | Amazon Household/Family sharing can include shared Prime benefits and, depending on settings, shared payment methods and purchase-adjacent visibility between adults in the household. | Amazon’s help center provides a documented process to ‘Remove an Adult from Your Amazon Family,’ accessible via Amazon’s customer service pages (the specific page could not be fully retrieved in this research due to a robots.txt restriction, so exact step text is unverified here). | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Streaming profiles (Netflix) | Anyone with the account password can access all profiles unless separated; profile-level viewing history, ‘My List,’ and settings are typically visible to that profile’s user, but on a shared account, the account holder can generally see or manage all profiles. | Netflix’s documented Profile Transfer feature lets a user move an individual profile (name, icon, viewing history and ratings, ‘My List,’ game saves, and preferences) to a brand-new account, from Account > Profiles > select profile > ‘Profile Transfer’ > ‘Start Profile Transfer’ > ‘A New Account’ > enter a new email/password. Payment information does not transfer and must be set up separately on the new account. | The vendor’s own instructions |
| Amazon Alexa / voice assistants | Alexa devices linked to a shared Ring account, or otherwise tied to a household’s voice profile, can carry over shared access to connected smart-home devices like doorbells and cameras. | Ring’s own documentation specifically instructs removing shared-user access from both the Ring app and ‘any Alexa devices linked to the shared user’s Ring account’ as two separate steps. | The vendor’s own instructions |
What we could not confirm
Published because leaving it out would be the dishonest choice. Every item below is something we went looking for and could not stand behind.
- The exact percentage of divorce attorneys who report increased use of social media evidence (cited as ~81% within the Canavan & Kolstad academic article, but originating from a third-party attorney survey not independently verified here).
- Whether Amazon’s documented ‘Remove an Adult from Your Amazon Family’ page describes shared payment-method visibility in the same way as Family Sharing/Household content sharing — the Amazon help page we could not fetched due to robots.txt restrictions, so this entry relies on the page’s existence and title only, not its full text.
- The exact current (2026) prevalence statistics for stalkerware — the figures found (SPARC’s ‘one in four,’ and 2020 Kaspersky/Malwarebytes detection counts, and a cited 2023 Kaspersky figure of 31,000+ cases) are the numbers the Coalition Against Stalkerware itself cites, but they are several years old at the newest and represent different methodologies (vendor detection telemetry vs. survivor surveys), so they should not be combined into a single up-to-date prevalence claim.
- Whether NNEDV Safety Net has a single canonical document that explicitly frames ‘document access before removing it’ as a named, step-by-step principle — the sources retrieved (techsafety.org password and securing-devices pages) support the underlying caution against abrupt changes, but did not yield an exact document with that specific sequencing framed as an explicit rule in those words.
- Specifics of what a ‘Verizon Family Member’ (adult) line, as opposed to a ‘Child’ line, can have viewed by the account owner — the fetched FAQ page emphasized child-oriented language (‘View Child’s call and text activity’) and it is not fully confirmed whether the same visibility applies identically to an adult ‘Member’ role without further verification of Verizon’s current plan documentation.
Ten years ago separating a household meant a joint bank account and a phone bill. It now means roughly forty accounts, most of which nobody remembers creating, several of which report location. The ones that cause real harm are never the ones people think of. It is rarely the email. It is the family plan, the shared photo library and the car.