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Your decree does not bind your lender.

The most misunderstood thing in divorce finance. What a court can and cannot do about a joint debt, what actually removes your name, and what happens if the other person files for bankruptcy.

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  1. The questions, answered — No. This is the single thing people get wrong most often, and it costs them the most money.
  2. What is published everywhere and is wrong — It is his as between the two of you.
  3. Everything this page was read from — Nothing here asks for their real name, and nobody finds out they looked.
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The questions, answered

A divorce decree says my former spouse has to pay the credit card and the car loan. Does that stop the lender coming after me?Partly confirmed

No. This is the single thing people get wrong most often, and it costs them the most money. A divorce is an arrangement between two people and a court. A loan is a separate contract between you and a lender, and the lender was not in the courtroom and did not sign the decree. So the decree can decide, as between the two of you, who is supposed to pay. It cannot rewrite the contract. If your name is on the loan, the lender can still ask you for the whole balance, sue you for it, and report the late payments on your credit file, no matter what the decree says. The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, the federal agency that oversees consumer lending, states this almost in those words. It also names the only two things that normally do get you off the hook with the lender: the lender itself releasing you in writing, or the loan being refinanced into the other person's name alone. Sending the lender a copy of the decree is not one of them.

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "Can a debt collector contact me about a debt after a divorce?"Divorce changes the relationship between spouses, but it doesn't automatically change their relationship with creditors. A divorce decree or property settlement may allocate debts to a specific spouse, but it doesn't change the fact that a creditor can still collect from anyone whose name appears as a borrower on the loan or debt. While state laws vary, you are generally responsible for a debt unless you were contractually released by the creditor or your former spouse refinanced the loan and removed your name. This applies to any loans or debts you owed jointly with your former spouse, such as auto loans, mortgage loans, personal loans, medical bills, or utilities.

The same page adds a sentence worth reading twice, because it catches the two mistakes people make most often: "Keep in mind, taking your name off a home or vehicle title doesn't take your name off the mortgage or auto loan and sending creditors a copy of your divorce decree doesn't end your responsibility on a joint account." The deed and the mortgage are two different documents. Signing away the house does not sign away the loan.

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What is the difference between a joint account, being an authorized user, and an individual account, and why does it matter when a marriage ends?Partly confirmed

There are three quite different ways your name can be attached to somebody else's credit, and they end very differently. On a joint account both people signed and both people owe the whole balance, so the lender can chase either one for all of it. An authorized user is somebody who was given a card to use but never promised to repay anything, so when the marriage ends they are generally not on the hook for the balance, and the person who owns the account can simply telephone the card company and have them taken off. An individual account is in one person's name alone, and the other spouse is not liable on it merely because they were married. Regulation B, the rule that carries out the Equal Credit Opportunity Act, gives the technical name for the difference: being "contractually liable" means you expressly promised to repay. Use of a card, on its own, is not that promise.

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "Am I responsible for charges on a joint credit card account if I didn't make them?"Yes. When you have a joint account, each account holder is responsible for the full amount of the balance. The credit card company can seek to collect the amount due from either account holder. If you no longer want to be responsible for the joint account, contact your credit card company to learn your options. You may have to close the account to avoid being responsible for future charges. If you close the account, each of the joint account holders will be responsible to repay the entire balance when you close the account.

On authorized users the CFPB says, on its divorce and debt collection page: "For credit cards, you're responsible for the debt if you had a joint credit card account, but if you were only an 'authorized user' on your former spouse's account, you're generally not responsible for the amount owed." (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/i-am-divorced-and-getting-calls-about-a-debt-that-is-no-longer-my-responsibility-under-the-divorce-decree-or-property-settlement-agreement-can-a-debt-collector-try-to-collect-this-debt-from-me-en-1413/). Regulation B, 12 C.F.R. 1002.2(i), defines the line: "Contractually liable means expressly obligated to repay all debts arising on an account by reason of an agreement to that effect." (https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-12/chapter-X/part-1002/subpart-A/section-1002.2). Removing an authorized user is a phone call. The CFPB's instruction is: "First, call customer service and ask that the authorized user be removed from your account. You can also ask the card issuer if you should get a new card with a new number. This may be a good idea if the authorized user has your card number." It then draws the distinction plainly: an authorized user is not a joint owner, and to remove a joint owner you have to ask the card issuer what its policy is (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/how-do-i-remove-an-authorized-user-from-my-credit-card-account-en-86/).

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Whose name does an account get reported in, and can I make a lender report it in mine?Partly confirmed

Regulation B tells lenders that report to the credit bureaus how to label an account that both spouses are on. If one spouse may use the account or is legally obliged to repay it, a new account must be set up to show both people taking part. For an account that already exists, either spouse can write to the lender and ask for it to be labeled that way, and the lender has ninety days to do it. That matters after a separation, because it is how a spouse who has been invisible on paper starts to have a credit history in their own name.

12 C.F.R. 1002.10, Furnishing of credit information (Regulation B)(a) Designation of accounts. A creditor that furnishes credit information shall designate: (1) Any new account to reflect the participation of both spouses if the applicant's spouse is permitted to use or is contractually liable on the account (other than as a guarantor, surety, endorser, or similar party); and (2) Any existing account to reflect such participation, within 90 days after receiving a written request to do so from one of the spouses. (b) Routine reports to consumer reporting agency. If a creditor furnishes credit information to a consumer reporting agency concerning an account designated to reflect the participation of both spouses, the creditor shall furnish the information in a manner that will enable the agency to provide access to the information in the name of each spouse. (c) Reporting in response to inquiry. If a creditor furnishes credit information in response to an inquiry, concerning an account designated to reflect the participation of both spouses, the creditor shall furnish the information in the name of the spouse about whom the information is requested.

This cuts both ways. An account labeled to show both spouses reports on both credit files, so the good history and the bad history both follow both people.

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What can I actually do about a joint debt, as opposed to what the decree says?Partly confirmed

There are only a handful of moves that change anything with the lender, and all of them involve the lender or the money, not the court. You can close the account to new charges, which stops the balance growing but leaves both of you owing what is already there. You can pay it off. You can refinance it into one person's name alone, which is a brand new loan that pays off the old one and releases the other person. You can move a credit card balance onto a card in one person's own name, which has the same effect for that balance. Or you can sell the asset, a house or a car, and use the proceeds to clear the loan. What does not work is telling the lender about the decree. The CFPB names the two exits: a contractual release from the lender, or a refinance that removes your name.

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "Am I responsible for charges on a joint credit card account if I didn't make them?"If you no longer want to be responsible for the joint account, contact your credit card company to learn your options. You may have to close the account to avoid being responsible for future charges. If you close the account, each of the joint account holders will be responsible to repay the entire balance when you close the account.

Regulation B does protect an existing revolving account from being shut down or repriced simply because your marital status changed. 12 C.F.R. 1002.7(c)(1): "In the absence of evidence of the applicant's inability or unwillingness to repay, a creditor shall not take any of the following actions regarding an applicant who is contractually liable on an existing open-end account on the basis of the applicant's reaching a certain age or retiring or on the basis of a change in the applicant's name or marital status: (i) Require a reapplication, except as provided in paragraph (c)(2) of this section; (ii) Change the terms of the account; or (iii) Terminate the account." There is an exception where the credit was granted partly on the strength of the other spouse's income: 12 C.F.R. 1002.7(c)(2) lets the lender require a fresh application in that case (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/rules-policy/regulations/1002/7/).

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If I ask a lender to take my former spouse's name off the loan, does it have to say yes?Partly confirmed

No. We could find no federal law that requires an ordinary lender to release one borrower from a loan on request. Removing a name means either a refinance, which is a new loan, or an assumption, where the person keeping the asset takes over the existing loan and the other borrower is released. Both normally require the person keeping the loan to qualify on their own. The CFPB's own study of mortgage complaints describes how this plays out, including people who are ordered by a court to remove an ex-spouse and cannot get the mortgage company to do it. There is one piece of protection: on a mortgage, federal servicing rules require the company to deal promptly with someone who has become an owner through a divorce, and to process an assumption request in a timely way, even though it does not force the company to approve it.

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Issue Spotlight: Homeowners face problems with mortgage companies after divorce or death of a loved oneIf the homeowner wants to have the original borrower released from liability on the mortgage, as courts often order in divorces, the homeowner will generally need to assume liability for the mortgage after meeting the lender or investor's underwriting standards.

The same report says the CFPB is seeing companies refuse: "Homeowners report that some servicers are blocking requests to release the original borrower from liability, as divorce decrees often require. For homeowners required by court order to remove an ex-spouse from the mortgage, this can lead to being found in violation of the court order or having their property settlement re-opened." It also says people are being pushed into unnecessary refinancing: "If homeowners wish to modify the loan, to change the payment terms or remove the original borrower's name from the mortgage, homeowners do not generally need to refinance to do so, provided they are willing to assume liability on the loan and can pass the investor's underwriting criteria for assumptions."

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What does a divorce do to my credit report?Partly confirmed

By itself, nothing. There is no such thing as a married couple's credit report. Each adult has their own file, built from the accounts their own name is attached to. A divorce is not an entry on a credit report and there is no marital status on it. What does show up is the accounts. Any account you are a borrower on keeps reporting on your file, including every late payment your former spouse makes on it, until it is closed and paid or your name comes off it. That is why the paperwork matters more than the decree. Your former spouse's own separate accounts and their own credit score never were yours and do not become yours.

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "If my spouse has a bad credit score, does it affect my credit score?"Credit scores are calculated on a specific individual's credit history. If your spouse has a bad credit score, it will not affect your credit score.

The other half of the same point, from the CFPB: "Yes. Joint accounts, like a joint credit card, will affect both your credit scores." (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/do-joint-credit-card-accounts-with-my-spouse-affect-my-credit-score-en-1289/). Separate credit stays separate. Shared credit stays shared until it is actually closed, paid, or refinanced.

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How long can a debt from the marriage stay on my credit report?Partly confirmed

The Fair Credit Reporting Act sets the outside limits. Most bad news comes off after seven years: accounts sent to collection or written off, and any other adverse item. A lawsuit or judgment can be reported for seven years or until the time limit for suing has run out, whichever is longer. A bankruptcy can be reported for ten years. Those clocks run from the events, not from the date of the divorce, and nothing about a divorce restarts or shortens them. Accurate information cannot be removed early.

15 U.S.C. 1681c(a), Requirements relating to information contained in consumer reportsExcept as authorized under subsection (b), no consumer reporting agency may make any consumer report containing any of the following items of information: (1) Cases under title 11 or under the Bankruptcy Act that, from the date of entry of the order for relief or the date of adjudication, as the case may be, antedate the report by more than 10 years. (2) Civil suits, civil judgments, and records of arrest that, from date of entry, antedate the report by more than seven years or until the governing statute of limitations has expired, whichever is the longer period. (3) Paid tax liens which, from date of payment, antedate the report by more than seven years. (4) Accounts placed for collection or charged to profit and loss which antedate the report by more than seven years. (5) Any other adverse item of information, other than records of convictions of crimes which antedates the report by more than seven years.

The CFPB puts the same limits in plainer words: "A credit reporting company generally can report most negative information for seven years. Information about a lawsuit or a judgment against you can be reported for seven years or until the statute of limitations runs out, whichever is longer. Bankruptcies can stay on your report for up to ten years." It also says: "No one has the right to remove negative information, such as late payments, from a credit report if it is accurate." (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/how-long-does-information-stay-on-my-credit-report-en-323/). Section 1681c(a) also carries limits on medical debt information and, for veterans' medical debt, a one-year waiting period and a bar on reporting such a debt once it is fully paid or settled.

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What can a lender not do to me because I am getting divorced?Partly confirmed

The Equal Credit Opportunity Act makes marital status a prohibited basis, which means a lender may not treat you worse because you are married, unmarried, or separated. Regulation B, the rule that carries the Act out, says married and unmarried applicants must be judged by the same standards. In Regulation B, "unmarried" expressly includes people who are divorced. A lender must not refuse you an account in your own name because of your sex or your marital status, and if you qualify on your own it must not demand your spouse's signature. There are limits on what a lender may even ask: on an application for individual unsecured credit it generally may not ask your marital status at all, unless you live in a community property state or are relying on property in one.

12 C.F.R. 1002.6(b)(8), Rules concerning evaluation of applications (Regulation B)(8) Marital status. Except as otherwise permitted or required by law, a creditor shall evaluate married and unmarried applicants by the same standards; and in evaluating joint applicants, a creditor shall not treat applicants differently based on the existence, absence, or likelihood of a marital relationship between the parties.

Supporting text, all from Regulation B. The general ban, 12 C.F.R. 1002.4(a): "A creditor shall not discriminate against an applicant on a prohibited basis regarding any aspect of a credit transaction." The definition, 12 C.F.R. 1002.2(u): "Marital status means the state of being unmarried, married, or separated, as defined by applicable state law. The term 'unmarried' includes persons who are single, divorced, or widowed." Accounts in your own name, 12 C.F.R. 1002.7(a): "A creditor shall not refuse to grant an individual account to a creditworthy applicant on the basis of sex, marital status, or any other prohibited basis." Your own name, 12 C.F.R. 1002.7(b): "A creditor shall not refuse to allow an applicant to open or maintain an account in a birth-given first name and a surname that is the applicant's birth-given surname, the spouse's surname, or a combined surname." No spouse's signature where you qualify alone, 12 C.F.R. 1002.7(d)(1): "Except as provided in this paragraph, a creditor shall not require the signature of an applicant's spouse or other person, other than a joint applicant, on any credit instrument if the applicant qualifies under the creditor's standards of creditworthiness for the amount and terms of the credit requested." Limits on questions, 12 C.F.R. 1002.5(d)(1): "If an applicant applies for individual unsecured credit, a creditor shall not inquire about the applicant's marital status unless the applicant resides in a community property state or is relying on property located in such a state as a basis for repayment of the credit requested." Community property states have their own separate rules under 12 C.F.R. 1002.7(d)(3), and this is one of the places where the state you live in genuinely changes the answer.

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Can a lender count, or refuse to count, the alimony or child support I receive?Partly confirmed

A lender must count alimony, child support, or separate maintenance payments as income, to the extent those payments are likely to be made consistently. It may weigh how reliable they are, but it may not simply ignore them. The choice about whether to bring them up is yours, and the lender has to tell you that. Before a lender may ask whether income on your application is alimony or child support, it has to say first that you do not have to reveal it if you do not want it counted.

12 C.F.R. 1002.6(b)(5), Rules concerning evaluation of applications (Regulation B)(5) Income. A creditor shall not discount or exclude from consideration the income of an applicant or the spouse of an applicant because of a prohibited basis or because the income is derived from part-time employment or is an annuity, pension, or other retirement benefit; a creditor may consider the amount and probable continuance of any income in evaluating an applicant's creditworthiness. When an applicant relies on alimony, child support, or separate maintenance payments in applying for credit, the creditor shall consider such payments as income to the extent that they are likely to be consistently made.

The disclosure rule is 12 C.F.R. 1002.5(d)(2): "A creditor shall not inquire whether income stated in an application is derived from alimony, child support, or separate maintenance payments unless the creditor discloses to the applicant that such income need not be revealed if the applicant does not want the creditor to consider it in determining the applicant's creditworthiness." The CFPB explains what a lender is allowed to weigh: "If you do want to have the dealer or lender consider your alimony, child support, or maintenance payments, the lender or dealer may consider the amount of such income and likelihood that it will continue. In determining this, a lender or dealer may consider factors such as whether there is a written agreement or court decree, how long and how regularly you have been receiving payments, the availability of court or other procedures to compel payment, and the creditworthiness of the payor when that information is available." (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/can-a-lender-or-dealer-ask-me-about-the-alimony-child-support-or-separate-maintenance-payments-that-i-receive-when-i-apply-for-an-auto-loan-en-1195/). A lender may also ask about a former spouse where you are relying on support from that former spouse to repay the credit: 12 C.F.R. 1002.5(c)(2)(v).

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How do I get my own credit reports, and what do they cost?Partly confirmed

Federal law entitles you to a free copy of your credit report from each nationwide credit bureau once every twelve months. On top of that, the three nationwide bureaus have made free weekly reports permanent. There is one authorized place to get the reports the law entitles you to, and the Federal Trade Commission names it: AnnualCreditReport.com. You can also request them by telephone on 1-877-322-8228 or by mail. Getting all three, not just one, is the point, because the three files are not identical.

15 U.S.C. 1681j(a)(1)(A), Charges for certain disclosuresAll consumer reporting agencies described in subsections (p) and (w) of section 1681a of this title shall make all disclosures pursuant to section 1681g of this title once during any 12-month period upon request of the consumer and without charge to the consumer.

The Federal Trade Commission names the site and warns about the imitations: "Only one website — AnnualCreditReport.com — is authorized to fill orders for the free annual credit reports you are entitled to by law." And: "All three nationwide credit bureaus have permanently extended a program that lets you check your credit report from each once a week for free at AnnualCreditReport.com. In addition, federal law requires each nationwide credit bureau to give you a free copy of your credit report once every 12 months if you ask for it." The FTC also lists extra free reports you can get if you were turned down for credit, employment, insurance or housing, if you are unemployed and plan to apply for work within sixty days, if you are on public assistance, if your report is inaccurate because of fraud including identity theft, or if you have a fraud alert on your file (https://consumer.ftc.gov/articles/free-credit-reports). The weekly free reports are a program the bureaus have adopted, not a figure written into the statute; the twelve-month entitlement is the one in the law.

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Can I lock my credit file so nobody can open an account in my name?Partly confirmed

Yes, and it is free. A security freeze, also called a credit freeze, stops the credit bureaus from handing your file to a prospective lender, which in practice stops new accounts being opened in your name. The law gives you a right to have one placed free of charge, within one business day if you ask by telephone or by secure electronic means, or three business days if you ask by mail. It stays in place until you ask for it to come off, and it has to come off within an hour of an electronic or telephone request. You have to ask each of the three nationwide bureaus separately. A freeze does not affect your credit score.

15 U.S.C. 1681c-1(i)(2)(A), National security freeze(A) In general Upon receiving a direct request from a consumer that a consumer reporting agency place a security freeze, and upon receiving proper identification from the consumer, the consumer reporting agency shall, free of charge, place the security freeze not later than- (i) in the case of a request that is by toll-free telephone or secure electronic means, 1 business day after receiving the request directly from the consumer; or (ii) in the case of a request that is by mail, 3 business days after receiving the request directly from the consumer.

The statute defines the freeze at 15 U.S.C. 1681c-1(i)(1)(C): "The term 'security freeze' means a restriction that prohibits a consumer reporting agency from disclosing the contents of a consumer report that is subject to such security freeze to any person requesting the consumer report." Removal is also free and fast, 15 U.S.C. 1681c-1(i)(3)(C): "a security freeze shall remain in place until the consumer directly requests that the security freeze be removed", and once asked the agency must lift it "not later than- (i) in the case of a request that is by toll-free telephone or secure electronic means, 1 hour after receiving the request for removal; or (ii) in the case of a request that is by mail, 3 business days after receiving the request for removal." The CFPB adds: "You can freeze and unfreeze your credit records for free at the three nationwide credit reporting companies – Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion", and "Security freezes do not impact your credit scores in any way whatsoever." (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/what-is-a-credit-freeze-or-security-freeze-on-my-credit-report-en-1341/).

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My decree says my former spouse will indemnify me and hold me harmless on the joint loan. What is that worth?Partly confirmed

It is worth something against your former spouse and nothing against the lender. An indemnity, or a hold harmless clause, is a promise by one person to the other that if the lender comes after you and you have to pay, they will make you whole. It creates a right you can take back to the family court and enforce against them. It does not touch the loan contract, because the lender never agreed to it, so the lender can still collect from you and the missed payments still land on your credit file. In practice the promise is only as good as the person making it and their ability to pay. We could find no federal source that uses the phrase "hold harmless" in this context, so we are not going to pretend one exists. What federal law does show, very clearly, is the two-layer structure: the Bankruptcy Code treats a debt created by a divorce and owed to a former spouse as a debt in its own right, separate from the underlying loan.

11 U.S.C. 523(a)(15), Exceptions to discharge(15) to a spouse, former spouse, or child of the debtor and not of the kind described in paragraph (5) that is incurred by the debtor in the course of a divorce or separation or in connection with a separation agreement, divorce decree or other order of a court of record, or a determination made in accordance with State or territorial law by a governmental unit;

The confidence here is about the words, not the law. There is no federal statute or agency page we could find that names indemnity or hold harmless clauses in divorce decrees and says what they do. The point is built from two things that are quotable: the CFPB's statement that a decree does not change what a creditor may collect from a named borrower, and the Bankruptcy Code's treatment of a divorce-created obligation owed to a former spouse as a debt in its own right. Whether such a clause is enforceable, and how, is a question of the law of your state and of your own decree, and we are not applying it to anybody's facts.

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If my former spouse goes bankrupt, does the alimony and child support disappear?Partly confirmed

No. A domestic support obligation is not wiped out by bankruptcy, in any chapter. The Bankruptcy Code excepts it from discharge in a single short line, and defines it broadly: money owed to a spouse, former spouse, or child, or to a government body, that is in the nature of alimony, maintenance, or support, established by a separation agreement, divorce decree, property settlement agreement, or court order. It counts as support because of what it really is, not because of what the decree calls it. Interest keeps running on it under ordinary state law. It does not stop being a support obligation just because it was not labeled one.

11 U.S.C. 523(a)(5), Exceptions to discharge(5) for a domestic support obligation;

That paragraph sits under the opening words of 11 U.S.C. 523(a), which say that a discharge in the chapters listed there "does not discharge an individual debtor from any debt-" and then runs the list of exceptions. The definition of a domestic support obligation is at 11 U.S.C. 101(14A) and is quoted in full in the next entry.

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What counts as a domestic support obligation?Partly confirmed

The Bankruptcy Code defines it. The four things it requires are: the debt is owed to or recoverable by a spouse, former spouse, or child, or that child's parent, guardian or responsible relative, or by a government body; it is in the nature of alimony, maintenance, or support; it was established by a separation agreement, a divorce decree, a property settlement agreement, a court order, or a government determination; and it has not been sold on to a private company. The phrase that does the heavy lifting is "without regard to whether such debt is expressly so designated". A court looks at what the payment is really for, not the label on it.

11 U.S.C. 101(14A), Definitions(14A) The term "domestic support obligation" means a debt that accrues before, on, or after the date of the order for relief in a case under this title, including interest that accrues on that debt as provided under applicable nonbankruptcy law notwithstanding any other provision of this title, that is- (A) owed to or recoverable by- (i) a spouse, former spouse, or child of the debtor or such child's parent, legal guardian, or responsible relative; or (ii) a governmental unit; (B) in the nature of alimony, maintenance, or support (including assistance provided by a governmental unit) of such spouse, former spouse, or child of the debtor or such child's parent, without regard to whether such debt is expressly so designated; (C) established or subject to establishment before, on, or after the date of the order for relief in a case under this title, by reason of applicable provisions of- (i) a separation agreement, divorce decree, or property settlement agreement; (ii) an order of a court of record; or (iii) a determination made in accordance with applicable nonbankruptcy law by a governmental unit; and (D) not assigned to a nongovernmental entity, unless that obligation is assigned voluntarily by the spouse, former spouse, child of the debtor, or such child's parent, legal guardian, or responsible relative for the purpose of collecting the debt.

Notice subparagraph (C)(i): a property settlement agreement can be the document that establishes a domestic support obligation. The name of the document is not what decides it. What decides it is whether the payment is in the nature of support.

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What about the other divorce debts, the ones that are not support? Does bankruptcy wipe those out?Partly confirmed

This is where the chapter changes the answer, and it is the part almost nobody knows. A debt owed to a former spouse that came out of the divorce but is not support, the classic example being a property settlement payment or a promise to pay off a joint loan and hold the other person harmless, is covered by section 523(a)(15). In a Chapter 7 case, that debt is not discharged and survives the bankruptcy. In a Chapter 13 case, where the debtor makes payments under a plan for years and then receives a discharge at the end, it is different. The list of debts that survive a completed Chapter 13 plan is set out in section 1328(a)(2), and it names paragraph (5) of section 523(a), which is support, but it does not name paragraph (15). So support survives a Chapter 13 discharge and a property settlement debt owed to a former spouse generally does not. Chapter 13 is the chapter that changes the answer, and it changes it in favor of the person who filed.

11 U.S.C. 1328(a)(2), Discharge (chapter 13)(2) of the kind specified in section 507(a)(8)(C) or in paragraph (1)(B), (1)(C), (2), (3), (4), (5), (8), or (9) of section 523(a);

The mechanism, in the statute's own words. Section 523(a) opens by naming the chapters it applies to: a discharge under sections 727, 1141, 1192, 1228(a), 1228(b), or 1328(b) "does not discharge an individual debtor from any debt-" and then lists the exceptions. A completed Chapter 13 plan produces a discharge under section 1328(a), which is not on that list, so section 523(a) does not govern it. Section 1328(a) instead has its own shorter list, and paragraph (15) is absent from it. The federal courts' own plain-language guide says the same thing from the other direction: "There are 19 categories of debt excepted from discharge under chapters 7, 11, and 12. A more limited list of exceptions applies to cases under chapter 13." (https://www.uscourts.gov/court-programs/bankruptcy/bankruptcy-basics/discharge-bankruptcy-bankruptcy-basics). Its Chapter 13 page lists what survives a Chapter 13 discharge, and that list includes debts for alimony or child support but does not include property settlement debts (https://www.uscourts.gov/court-programs/bankruptcy/bankruptcy-basics/chapter-13-bankruptcy-basics). A Chapter 13 discharge also depends on the debtor actually completing the plan and, where it applies, certifying that domestic support obligations have been paid, under 11 U.S.C. 1328(a). None of this is advice about any particular case.

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If my former spouse's bankruptcy wipes out the joint loan for them, am I free of it too?Partly confirmed

No, and this catches people badly. A discharge in bankruptcy is personal to the person who filed. The Bankruptcy Code says in one sentence that discharging a debt for one person does not affect anybody else's liability for the same debt. So if a joint credit card or a joint loan is discharged in your former spouse's Chapter 7, the lender can still pursue you for the whole thing, and often will, because you are now the only person left to ask. The practical result of a former spouse's bankruptcy is frequently that the entire joint debt lands on you.

11 U.S.C. 524(e), Effect of dischargeExcept as provided in subsection (a)(3) of this section, discharge of a debt of the debtor does not affect the liability of any other entity on, or the property of any other entity for, such debt.

There is one temporary shelter, and only in Chapter 13. Section 1301 of the Bankruptcy Code creates a co-debtor stay. The federal courts describe it this way: "Chapter 13 also contains a special automatic stay provision that protects co-debtors. Unless the bankruptcy court authorizes otherwise, a creditor may not seek to collect a 'consumer debt' from any individual who is liable along with the debtor." (https://www.uscourts.gov/court-programs/bankruptcy/bankruptcy-basics/chapter-13-bankruptcy-basics). It applies only to consumer debts, only while the Chapter 13 case is running, and the court can lift it.

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My former spouse filed for bankruptcy. Does that stop the family court case and stop the support being collected?Partly confirmed

Mostly not. Filing a bankruptcy case triggers an automatic stay, which freezes almost all collection against the person who filed. But Congress carved out family law. The stay does not stop a case to establish paternity, to establish or change a support order, about child custody or visitation, to dissolve a marriage, or about domestic violence. It does not stop collection of a domestic support obligation from property that is not part of the bankruptcy estate, or wage withholding for support, or license suspension, or reporting overdue support to a credit bureau, or interception of a tax refund, or enforcement of a medical support obligation. The one thing that is stayed is the part of a divorce case that divides up property belonging to the bankruptcy estate.

11 U.S.C. 362(b)(2), Automatic stay, exceptions(2) under subsection (a)- (A) of the commencement or continuation of a civil action or proceeding- (i) for the establishment of paternity; (ii) for the establishment or modification of an order for domestic support obligations; (iii) concerning child custody or visitation; (iv) for the dissolution of a marriage, except to the extent that such proceeding seeks to determine the division of property that is property of the estate; or (v) regarding domestic violence; (B) of the collection of a domestic support obligation from property that is not property of the estate; (C) with respect to the withholding of income that is property of the estate or property of the debtor for payment of a domestic support obligation under a judicial or administrative order or a statute; (D) of the withholding, suspension, or restriction of a driver's license, a professional or occupational license, or a recreational license, under State law, as specified in section 466(a)(16) of the Social Security Act; (E) of the reporting of overdue support owed by a parent to any consumer reporting agency as specified in section 466(a)(7) of the Social Security Act; (F) of the interception of a tax refund, as specified in sections 464 and 466(a)(3) of the Social Security Act or under an analogous State law; or (G) of the enforcement of a medical obligation, as specified under title IV of the Social Security Act;

The exception in clause (iv) is the one to watch. The divorce itself can go on; the fight over dividing property that belongs to the bankruptcy estate cannot, until the bankruptcy court lets it.

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What happens to student loans in a divorce?Partly confirmed

A federal student loan is normally one person's own loan, and a spouse does not become liable for it by marrying or stay liable after divorcing, unless they signed for it. There is one big exception, and it has a federal fix. Before 1 July 2006 married couples could merge their separate federal loans into a single joint consolidation loan, and both of them became liable for the whole thing regardless of any later divorce. That trapped a lot of people. The Joint Consolidation Loan Separation Act now lets those borrowers apply to split that loan into two separate Direct Consolidation Loans. There are three routes: both apply and each takes their original share, both apply and the split follows the divorce decree or court order, or one person applies alone where there has been domestic violence or economic abuse or they cannot reach the other borrower. Private student loans are a matter of the contract and any co-signature, and are not covered by that Act.

U.S. Department of Education, Federal Student Aid, Combined Application to Separate a Joint Consolidation LoanBefore July 1, 2006, married individuals were able to consolidate their individual federal student loans made under the William D. Ford Federal Direct Loan Program ("Direct Loan Program") or the Federal Family Education Loan Program ("FFEL Program") into a single consolidation loan known as a "joint consolidation loan." Married individuals who signed a promissory note for a joint consolidation loan agreed to be jointly and severally liable for the entire amount of the joint debt, regardless of any future change in their marital status.

"Jointly and severally liable" means each of you can be made to pay all of it, not half of it. The three separation routes are set out in the same application form, and the third route, applying alone, is available where the other borrower cannot be reached or where there has been domestic violence or economic abuse. The Department's own web pages describing this program are built to load in a browser and we could not read as plain text, so we relied on the application form itself, which is the Department's own document. Anyone in this position should start at the Department's joint consolidation loans page: https://studentaid.gov/announcements-events/joint-consolidation-loans

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What is specific about a mortgage when a marriage ends?Partly confirmed

Two things. First, the deed and the mortgage are different documents, and taking your name off the deed does not take your name off the loan. Second, federal mortgage servicing rules give you a status if you become an owner through a divorce: successor in interest. The rule spells out that a transfer under a divorce decree, a legal separation agreement, or a property settlement agreement makes the spouse a successor in interest. Once the company has confirmed your ownership, it has to treat you like a borrower for the purpose of getting information, making payments, and being considered for help avoiding foreclosure, without you having to take on the loan first. If you want the other person released from the loan, that generally means assuming the loan and qualifying for it, or refinancing.

12 C.F.R. 1024.31, Definitions (Regulation X, mortgage servicing)Successor in interest means a person to whom an ownership interest in a property securing a mortgage loan subject to this subpart is transferred from a borrower, provided that the transfer is: (1) A transfer by devise, descent, or operation of law on the death of a joint tenant or tenant by the entirety; (2) A transfer to a relative resulting from the death of a borrower; (3) A transfer where the spouse or children of the borrower become an owner of the property; (4) A transfer resulting from a decree of a dissolution of marriage, legal separation agreement, or from an incidental property settlement agreement, by which the spouse of the borrower becomes an owner of the property; or (5) A transfer into an inter vivos trust in which the borrower is and remains a beneficiary and which does not relate to a transfer of rights of occupancy in the property.

The CFPB describes what this is supposed to mean in practice: "Successor homeowners have a right to continue making the mortgage payments, get information about the loan, and even be evaluated for a loan modification without either assuming liability for the loan or refinancing." It also reports that companies are not always doing it, including sending all correspondence to an abusive former partner and requiring that person's consent for changes (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/data-research/research-reports/homeowners-face-problems-with-mortgage-companies-after-divorce-or-death-of-a-loved-one/). Complaints go to the CFPB at https://www.consumerfinance.gov/complaint/

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What is specific about a car loan?Partly confirmed

The same trap as the house, in miniature and much faster. The title to the car and the loan on the car are two separate things. Signing the title over to your former spouse does not take your name off the auto loan, and if they stop paying, the lender comes to you and the repossession shows on your credit file. The only clean exits are refinancing the loan into one name, paying it off, or selling the car and clearing the loan. Lenders are not allowed to treat you worse because of your marital status when you apply to refinance in your own name.

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "Can a debt collector contact me about a debt after a divorce?"Keep in mind, taking your name off a home or vehicle title doesn't take your name off the mortgage or auto loan and sending creditors a copy of your divorce decree doesn't end your responsibility on a joint account.

We found no federal rule specific to splitting a car loan in a divorce, in the way the mortgage servicing rules are specific about a house. The protections that apply are the general ones: Regulation B on marital status and on counting support as income when you apply for a loan in your own name, and the CFPB statement quoted here.

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My former partner opened accounts in my name, or made me sign for loans. What does the law call that and what can I do?Partly confirmed

If someone opened an account in your name without your permission, that is identity theft, and it does not stop being identity theft because you were married to them. The Federal Trade Commission's definition is simply someone using your personal or financial information without your permission, and it expressly includes getting new credit cards in your name and opening utility accounts in your name. The route is IdentityTheft.gov, which produces a recovery plan and the report you need. That report matters legally: with an identity theft report and proof of who you are, a credit bureau must block the disputed information from your file within four business days. If you were forced or threatened into signing for a debt, rather than the account being opened behind your back, the position is harder and less settled. The CFPB calls that coerced debt and in December 2024 opened an information-gathering stage of a rulemaking about whether the identity theft protections should reach it. That is a question the agency asked, not a rule, and no rule had followed by the time we checked.

15 U.S.C. 1681c-2(a), Block of information resulting from identity theftExcept as otherwise provided in this section, a consumer reporting agency shall block the reporting of any information in the file of a consumer that the consumer identifies as information that resulted from an alleged identity theft, not later than 4 business days after the date of receipt by such agency of- (1) appropriate proof of the identity of the consumer; (2) a copy of an identity theft report; (3) the identification of such information by the consumer; and (4) a statement by the consumer that the information is not information relating to any transaction by the consumer.

The FTC's definition: "Identity theft is when someone uses your personal or financial information without your permission. They might steal your name and address, credit card or bank account numbers, Social Security number, or medical insurance account numbers. And they could use them to buy things with your credit cards, get new credit cards in your name, open a phone, electricity, or gas account in your name, steal your tax refund, get a job, get medical care, pretend to be you if they're arrested." Reporting is at IdentityTheft.gov, in Spanish at RobodeIdentidad.gov, and by telephone on 877-438-4338 (https://consumer.ftc.gov/articles/what-know-about-identity-theft). On coerced debt, the CFPB's announcement said: "Abusers often use coerced debt as a tool of control, forcing their partner or other family members to take out credit cards or loans through threats, physical violence, or manipulation. They may secretly open accounts in survivors' names, force them to sign financial documents, or run up charges on existing accounts." The definition the CFPB quoted from the petition it was responding to is "all non-consensual, credit-related transactions that occur in a relationship where one person uses coercive control to dominate the other person." That announcement page is now marked as archived content on the CFPB's own website, and the rulemaking had not produced a rule when we checked on 23 August 2026, so treat it as a description of a problem the agency identified, not as law (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/rules-policy/rules-under-development/fair-credit-reporting-act-regulation-v-identity-theft-and-coerced-debt/). If you are in danger, safety comes before paperwork.

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My former spouse ran up charges on a card. Can I dispute them?Partly confirmed

It depends entirely on what your former spouse was, on paper. Under the credit card rules that carry out the Fair Credit Billing Act, an unauthorized use is use by someone other than the cardholder who has no actual, implied, or apparent authority to use the card and from whom the cardholder gets no benefit, and your liability for that is capped at fifty dollars. But if you added your spouse as an authorized user, or handed them the card, they had authority, and charges they made are generally not unauthorized, which means the cap does not help. The way to stop that is to remove them as an authorized user and ask for a new card number. A charge that genuinely was not authorized is a billing error, and you have to put the dispute in writing to the address the card company gives for billing inquiries, within sixty days of the first statement that showed it. And on a joint account, none of this changes the basic position: both of you owe the balance.

12 C.F.R. 1026.12(b)(1), Liability of cardholder for unauthorized use (Regulation Z)(i) Definition of unauthorized use. For purposes of this section, the term "unauthorized use" means the use of a credit card by a person, other than the cardholder, who does not have actual, implied, or apparent authority for such use, and from which the cardholder receives no benefit. (ii) Limitation on amount. The liability of a cardholder for unauthorized use of a credit card shall not exceed the lesser of $50 or the amount of money, property, labor, or services obtained by the unauthorized use before notification to the card issuer under paragraph (b)(3) of this section.

The sixty-day deadline is in 12 C.F.R. 1026.13(b)(1): a billing error notice must be "received by a creditor at the address disclosed under 1026.7(a)(9) or (b)(9), as applicable, no later than 60 days after the creditor transmitted the first periodic statement that reflects the alleged billing error", and it must be in writing (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/rules-policy/regulations/1026/13/). The first kind of billing error listed in 1026.13(a)(1) uses the same test: "A reflection on or with a periodic statement of an extension of credit that is not made to the consumer or to a person who has actual, implied, or apparent authority to use the consumer's credit card or open-end credit plan." If the charges were made under threat or coercion rather than without your knowledge, see the entry on coerced debt above; that is a harder situation and the federal protections are less settled.

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What is published everywhere and is wrong

On every subject on this page the wrong version is more widely repeated than the right one. These are the ones worth knowing before somebody tells you otherwise.

“The divorce decree says the debt is his, so it is his.”

It is his as between the two of you. It is still yours as far as the lender is concerned, if your name is on the loan. The CFPB says a decree "doesn't change the fact that a creditor can still collect from anyone whose name appears as a borrower on the loan or debt." You are generally responsible until the lender releases you in writing or the loan is refinanced without you.

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "Can a debt collector contact me about a debt after a divorce?"
“If I send the lender a copy of the decree, they will take my name off.”

They will not, and they do not have to. In the CFPB's words: "sending creditors a copy of your divorce decree doesn't end your responsibility on a joint account."

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "Can a debt collector contact me about a debt after a divorce?"
“I signed the house over to him, so I am off the mortgage.”

The deed and the mortgage are two different documents. "Taking your name off a home or vehicle title doesn't take your name off the mortgage or auto loan." Getting off the loan means a refinance or an assumption the lender approves.

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "Can a debt collector contact me about a debt after a divorce?"; 12 C.F.R. 1024.31
“I was on her credit card, so I owe half the balance.”

It depends what you were. On a joint account you owe all of it, not half: "each account holder is responsible for the full amount of the balance." If you were only an authorized user, the CFPB says you are "generally not responsible for the amount owed."

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "Am I responsible for charges on a joint credit card account if I didn't make them?" and "Can a debt collector contact me about a debt after a divorce?"
“A hold harmless clause protects me from the bank.”

It protects you from your former spouse. It gives you a claim against them if you end up having to pay. The bank was not a party to it and is not bound by it, so the bank can still collect from you and the missed payments still hit your credit file. And the promise is only as good as their ability to honor it.

Built from Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "Can a debt collector contact me about a debt after a divorce?" and 11 U.S.C. 523(a)(15). No federal source we found uses the phrase "hold harmless" in this setting.
“My divorce will hurt my credit score.”

A divorce is not reported on a credit report and there is no marital status on one. What hurts a score is missed payments on accounts your name is still on. "Credit scores are calculated on a specific individual's credit history."

Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "If my spouse has a bad credit score, does it affect my credit score?"
“If my ex declares bankruptcy, the joint debt goes away for both of us.”

It goes away for them and lands entirely on you. "Discharge of a debt of the debtor does not affect the liability of any other entity on, or the property of any other entity for, such debt."

11 U.S.C. 524(e)
“Bankruptcy cannot touch anything from a divorce.”

Support is untouchable in every chapter. Other divorce debts owed to a former spouse, such as a property settlement payment, are not discharged in Chapter 7 but generally are discharged at the end of a completed Chapter 13 plan, because section 1328(a)(2) lists section 523(a)(5) and does not list section 523(a)(15).

11 U.S.C. 523(a)(5); 11 U.S.C. 523(a)(15); 11 U.S.C. 1328(a)(2)
“Filing for bankruptcy freezes the divorce case and stops the child support.”

It does not. The automatic stay expressly does not apply to establishing paternity, establishing or changing support, custody or visitation, dissolving the marriage, or domestic violence proceedings, nor to wage withholding for support, license suspension, credit reporting of overdue support, or tax refund interception. Only the division of property belonging to the bankruptcy estate is held up.

11 U.S.C. 362(b)(2)
“A lender can turn me down or close my card because I am now divorced.”

Marital status is a prohibited basis under the Equal Credit Opportunity Act. A creditor "shall evaluate married and unmarried applicants by the same standards," and unmarried includes divorced. It also may not close or reprice an existing revolving account just because your marital status changed, absent evidence you cannot or will not repay.

12 C.F.R. 1002.6(b)(8); 12 C.F.R. 1002.2(u); 12 C.F.R. 1002.7(c)(1)
“Lenders will not count my child support as income.”

They must count it to the extent it is likely to be consistently made. And they cannot even ask whether income on your application is support unless they first tell you that you do not have to reveal it.

12 C.F.R. 1002.6(b)(5); 12 C.F.R. 1002.5(d)(2)
“Checking my credit reports costs money, or hurts my score.”

Federal law entitles you to one free report from each nationwide bureau every twelve months, and the three bureaus have permanently made them free weekly at AnnualCreditReport.com. Freezing your file is free too, and the CFPB says a freeze does "not impact your credit scores in any way whatsoever."

15 U.S.C. 1681j(a)(1)(A); 15 U.S.C. 1681c-1(i); Federal Trade Commission, Free Credit Reports; Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Ask CFPB, "What is a credit freeze or security freeze on my credit report?"

What we could not read

Some official sites refuse automated access. We do not defeat those, so where one blocked us we went to a different official source and said so:

Everything this page was read from

Ask CFPB, "Can a debt collector contact me about a debt after a divorce?"
Ask CFPB, "Am I responsible for charges on a joint credit card account if I didn't make them?"
Ask CFPB, "How do I remove an authorized user from my credit card account?"
Ask CFPB, "If my spouse has a bad credit score, does it affect my credit score?"
Ask CFPB, "Do joint credit card accounts with my spouse affect my credit score?"
Ask CFPB, "How long does information stay on my credit report?"
Ask CFPB, "What is a credit freeze or security freeze on my credit report?"
Ask CFPB, "Can a lender or dealer ask me about the alimony, child support, or separate maintenance payments that I receive when I apply for an auto loan?"
Issue Spotlight: Homeowners face problems with mortgage companies after divorce or death of a loved one
Fair Credit Reporting Act (Regulation V); Identity Theft and Coerced Debt, advance notice of proposed rulemaking
CFPB Kicks Off Rulemaking to Help Mitigate the Financial Consequences of Domestic Violence and Elder Abuse (archived)
12 C.F.R. 1002.2, Definitions (Regulation B)
12 C.F.R. 1002.4, General rules (Regulation B)
12 C.F.R. 1002.5, Rules concerning requests for information (Regulation B)
12 C.F.R. 1002.6, Rules concerning evaluation of applications (Regulation B)
12 C.F.R. 1002.7, Rules concerning extensions of credit (Regulation B)
12 C.F.R. 1002.10, Furnishing of credit information (Regulation B)
12 C.F.R. 1024.31, Definitions (Regulation X, mortgage servicing)
12 C.F.R. 1026.12, Special credit card provisions (Regulation Z)
12 C.F.R. 1026.13, Billing error resolution (Regulation Z)
15 U.S.C. 1681c, Requirements relating to information contained in consumer reports
15 U.S.C. 1681c-1, Identity theft prevention; fraud alerts and active duty alerts (national security freeze)
15 U.S.C. 1681c-2, Block of information resulting from identity theft
15 U.S.C. 1681j, Charges for certain disclosures
11 U.S.C. 101, Definitions
11 U.S.C. 362, Automatic stay
11 U.S.C. 523, Exceptions to discharge
11 U.S.C. 524, Effect of discharge
11 U.S.C. 727, Discharge (chapter 7)
11 U.S.C. 1328, Discharge (chapter 13)
Discharge in Bankruptcy – Bankruptcy Basics
Chapter 13 – Bankruptcy Basics
Free Credit Reports
What To Know About Identity Theft
Combined Application to Separate a Joint Consolidation Loan
Learn how to separate a joint consolidation loan

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