Divorce in Washington, start to finish

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Washington gives you the forms for free. What it doesn’t give you is the order, the 90-day math, the traps that get filings sent back, or anyone to tell you which path you’re actually on. That’s this.

Start with your dates

Put in the day you filed and this page works out every deadline in your case, then hands you a calendar file that reminds you a week before each one and again the day before. It opens in the calendar you already use. Free, no account, nothing stored.

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Built from the current FL Divorce / FL All Family forms on courts.wa.gov, checked 08/2026
Washington DIY Divorce Kit

Which forms do you actually need?

Your route and its conditions, the forms grouped by route, how filing actually works in Washington, and the sequence with its costs.

First, which route you are on. Each one opens to the conditions the rule actually sets.

Filing together

RCW 26.09.030

This is the route where either of these is true:

  • Both spouses sign the same Petition.
  • The second spouse signs an Agreement to Join Petition (Joinder).
Cooperative service

RCW 26.09.030; Service Accepted (FL All Family 117)

This is the route where both of these are true:

  • The spouses are not filing on the same Petition and no Joinder is signed.
  • The other spouse will sign a Service Accepted form acknowledging that they received the papers.
Formal service

RCW 26.09.030; response deadlines of 20 days in-state, 60 days out of state or in custody

This is the route where either of these is true:

  • The other spouse will not co-file and will not sign a Service Accepted form.
  • The other spouse may not respond at all.
The forms, grouped by the route they belong to

Grouped exactly as Washington labels them, and nothing is added. 20 of 22 link straight to the official document; the rest are listed by name so you can find them in the state’s own catalog or ask the clerk for them.

All  9 forms
  • FL All Family 001 — Confidential Information — filed separately, not public
  • FL Divorce 201 — Petition for Divorce (Dissolution)
  • FL All Family 131 — Financial Declaration — sworn, filed with the court
  • FL All Family 011 — Sealed Financial Source Documents cover sheet, for tax returns and pay stubs
  • SCOMIS — Domestic and Other Case Types cover sheet
  • FL Divorce 231 — Findings and Conclusions About a Marriage
  • FL Divorce 241 — Final Divorce Order (Dissolution Decree)
  • DOH 422-027 — Certificate of Dissolution — filed with the state, not a court form
  • GR 34_0100 — Motion and Declaration for Waiver of Filing Fees, where the $364 fee cannot be afforded
Cooperative service  1 form
Filing together  1 form
  • FL All Family 119 — Agreement to Join Petition (Joinder) — the other spouse signs this to co-file
Formal service  2 forms
Minor children  6 forms
Not co-filed  2 forms
  • FL All Family 161 — Motion for Default, where the other spouse never responds
  • FL All Family 162 — Order on Motion for Default, where the other spouse never responds
Not co-filed — both service routes  1 form
  • FL Divorce 200 — Summons: Notice about a Marriage or Domestic Partnership
Your choice

You may e-file, but you do not have to

The checklist is not something you file. It is your worktable — what to do, in what order, and what it costs. The forms are what reaches the court, and this is how they get there in Washington.

Portal
County-specific: King County eFiling / KC Script Portal; Pierce County LINX; Snohomish County eFile & Serve (EFS) Everywhere else, e-filing exists only where the superior court has joined the state system, eFileWA. Its court chart (read 2 October 2026) lists fourteen superior courts, all “Permissive” (paper still accepted) and all taking family filings except Whatcom: Adams, Columbia, Franklin, Garfield, Grays Harbor, Kitsap, Lewis, Okanogan, Pacific, San Juan, Snohomish, Whatcom (not family), Whitman and Yakima. A county that is not King, Pierce or on that chart has no e-filing route on the state system, which for a divorce means paper.
Paper
Still accepted — you can file over the counter.
What it costs
King County: 'E-filing via the KC Script Portal is free for most documents; however, some documents require a fee to file by law.' Snohomish County: no fee for using eFile & Serve itself; statutory filing fees apply. Card surcharge: King County: '$2.49 processing fee for credit card transactions.' Snohomish County: 'an eCommerce transaction fee which shall be applied for each electronic payment (2.89% of total fees for credit and debit cards).'
Worth knowing
Washington settles this at the state level in your favor. GR 30 only lets a county make e-filing mandatory for attorneys, and it requires that e-filing not become a barrier to access. King, Pierce and Snohomish all follow that: attorneys must, you may. Pierce puts it most plainly — self-represented parties are not required to e-file but can ask the Clerk for an account. The state system says the same for every county on it: “If eFiling is available for your Court and you do not have an attorney, you may eFile or submit paper documents to the Court. eFiling is encouraged but not mandatory for self-represented litigants” (eFileWA, self-represented filers, read 2 October 2026). The thing to check first is not whether you may e-file but whether your county offers it at all — most do not. The Washington State Law Library pointed us to the county chart on 2 October 2026. Watch the card fees rather than the filing method: King charges a flat $2.49 to pay by card, Snohomish charges 2.89% of the total, which on a filing fee of a few hundred dollars is the more expensive of the two.
The sequence

Each step with the forms it names and the money it costs. The full detail of every step is in the section below. Print this part.

#StepForms it namesCost
1Confirm eligibility and pick your countyNone named—
2Fill out and sign your petition packetFL All Family 001FL Divorce 201—
3File and pay the feeNone named$364
4Your spouse joins, accepts service, or is served then 20 or 60 days to respondFL All Family 119FL All Family 117FL Divorce 200—
5Wait out the 90 days from filing AND from service — no exceptionsNone named—
6If your spouse never responds, consider a defaultFL All Family 162FL All Family 161—
7Finish the Findings and Final OrderFL Divorce 231FL Divorce 241—
8Get the judge’s signatureNone named—
What it costs

Every figure here is this page’s own, from the costs section below. A fee waiver application is free to file and is listed with the forms above.

Filing fee — verified identical at $364 in King, Pierce, and Spokane county superior courts$364
Personal service by sheriff or a licensed process server, per person (member-reported, illustrative)~$50–120
Parenting seminar, per parent, if your county requires one and you have children (set by local court rule — check with your county clerk)check w/ county
DOH Certificate of Dissolution recording, vital records copy fee~$5–20
Service by publication, if you can’t locate your spouse$100+
Typical all-in, doing it yourselves, no attorney$400–500
Typical range with a family law attorney (member-reported, illustrative demo data — varies enormously by county and complexity)$3,500–12,000+
What this cannot do for you. It cannot tell you which forms your case needs — that depends on facts only you, and if you need one your lawyer, can weigh. Nothing here is new: every route condition, form label and figure is taken from this page’s own verified sections below. Download every form fresh, because clerks reject superseded revisions.
The short version9 points · tap one to jump to it
  1. The three service routes, and what the rule requires — Washington does not have a separate “simplified divorce” statute the way some states do — every dissolution runs through the same superior court process and the same 90-day floor.
  2. Every form Washington publishes for a divorce — Every form here is free from the Washington State Courts.
  3. Getting the forms and filling them in — Every Washington family law form is free, most are fillable on screen, and — unlike a lot of states — Washington built its process around people representing themselves without a lawyer.
  4. Your deadlines, calculated — Nearly everything in a Washington dissolution counts from two dates — when you filed, and when your spouse was served or joined the case.
  5. The order it actually happens in
  6. Washington's trap — Washington is a community property state, and people often assume that means two simple buckets: community property gets split evenly, and separate property (what you owned before the marriage, or inherited) is untouchable.
  7. The rejection-proofing checklist — None of them are hard — they're just easy to miss once.
  8. The Financial Declaration — what FL All Family 131 requires — Mandatory under RCW 26.18.220(1) any time finances are at issue — which is almost every case.
  9. What this costs — File Form GR 34, the Motion and Declaration for Waiver of Filing Fees.
In this subject 9

1 · The three service routes, and what the rule requires

Washington does not have a separate “simplified divorce” statute the way some states do — every dissolution runs through the same superior court process and the same 90-day floor. What changes is how much paperwork a case needs and whether the other spouse has to be formally served. Reading that wrong is what costs people a process-server fee or a rejected filing, so all three routes are set out below.

Residency comes first. RCW 26.09.030 requires one spouse to currently be a Washington resident, a member of the armed forces stationed here, or married to someone who is. Washington has no minimum duration for that residency — the moment one spouse meets it, the case can be filed.

Minor children, unsettled property and a maintenance request do not change which of the forms below are mandatory. What they change is how much weight the Petition’s property and maintenance sections carry, which is a reason to read those sections rather than skim them.

Filing together

RCW 26.09.030

Both spouses on the same Petition, or the second spouse signing a Joinder. There is no summons, no process server, and no risk of a default.

This is the route where either of these is true:

  • Both spouses sign the same Petition.
  • The second spouse signs an Agreement to Join Petition (Joinder).

The 90-day wait still applies in full — RCW 26.09.030 sets the same floor for every case, agreed or not. Because a joint filing often has no separate service step, most courts count the 90 days from the filing date; what a particular county clerk counts from is worth confirming at the counter.

Cooperative service

RCW 26.09.030; Service Accepted (FL All Family 117)

The route where the spouses are not co-filing but the other spouse will acknowledge the papers. The Summons and Petition still have to be formally given to them — but a sheriff or process server does not have to do it.

This is the route where both of these are true:

  • The spouses are not filing on the same Petition and no Joinder is signed.
  • The other spouse will sign a Service Accepted form acknowledging that they received the papers.

Signing Service Accepted does not waive the right to respond — it just proves service happened, for free.

Formal service

RCW 26.09.030; response deadlines of 20 days in-state, 60 days out of state or in custody

The route where the other spouse has to be personally served — by the sheriff, or by any adult who is not a party to the case. Section 3 has the typical cost.

This is the route where either of these is true:

  • The other spouse will not co-file and will not sign a Service Accepted form.
  • The other spouse may not respond at all.

The response clock — 20 days if served in Washington, 60 days if served out of state or in custody — starts on the date of service, whether or not the served spouse cooperates. Where the deadline passes with nothing filed, a motion for default becomes available.

2 · Every form Washington publishes for a divorce

The complete list for all three routes, not a shortlist — because which forms a case needs depends on facts only you and, if you need one, your lawyer can weigh. Each row says which route it belongs to and carries the revision date clerks check. Every form here is free from the Washington State Courts. Washington’s own forms use plain-language names (like “FL Divorce 201” instead of an old WPF number), which is what is printed in the footer of every page.

This is information, not legal advice

The Cusp is not a law firm and cannot tell you which forms are right for your case. Everything here is general information about how Washington handles divorce, and every form below is published free by Washington itself — you do not have to buy anything from anyone to get them. If your situation is not straightforward, a consultation with a Washington family lawyer costs far less than fixing a filing that went wrong.

FormWhat it isRouteRev.
FL All Family 001Confidential Information — filed separately, not publicAll01/26Download
FL Divorce 201Petition for Divorce (Dissolution)All01/23Download
FL All Family 119Agreement to Join Petition (Joinder) — the other spouse signs this to co-fileFiling together05/16Download
FL Divorce 200Summons: Notice about a Marriage or Domestic PartnershipNot co-filed — both service routes09/25Download
FL All Family 117Service Accepted — signed instead of formal serviceCooperative service07/17Download
FL All Family 101Proof of Personal ServiceFormal service06/20Download
FL Divorce 211Response to Petition about a Marriage — the responding spouse may file thisFormal service10/23Download
FL All Family 140Parenting PlanMinor children07/25Download
FL All Family 139Information for Temporary Parenting Plan, if needed before final ordersMinor children07/25Download
FL All Family 130Child Support OrderMinor children01/26Download
WSCSS-WorksheetsWashington State Child Support Schedule WorksheetsMinor children06/26Download
WSCSS-ScheduleWashington State Child Support Schedule (reference table)Minor children06/26Download
FL Divorce 243Residential Time Summary ReportMinor children07/25Download
FL All Family 131Financial Declaration — sworn, filed with the courtAll06/26Download
FL All Family 011Sealed Financial Source Documents cover sheet, for tax returns and pay stubsAll06/26Download
SCOMISDomestic and Other Case Types cover sheetAll06/25Download
FL Divorce 231Findings and Conclusions About a MarriageAll07/23Download
FL Divorce 241Final Divorce Order (Dissolution Decree)All06/24Download
DOH 422-027Certificate of Dissolution — filed with the state, not a court formAll07/23Download
FL All Family 161Motion for Default, where the other spouse never respondsNot co-filed—see clerk
FL All Family 162Order on Motion for Default, where the other spouse never respondsNot co-filed—see clerk
GR 34_0100Motion and Declaration for Waiver of Filing Fees, where the $364 fee cannot be affordedAll07/19Download

Every one of these is free. Download fresh each time — clerks reject superseded revisions, and saved copies go stale. Full catalog: courts.wa.gov/forms.

3 · Getting the forms and filling them in

Nobody explains this part, so here it is. Every Washington family law form is free, most are fillable on screen, and — unlike a lot of states — Washington built its process around people representing themselves without a lawyer.

You may e-file, but you do not have to Your choice

Portal
County-specific: King County eFiling / KC Script Portal; Pierce County LINX; Snohomish County eFile & Serve (EFS) Everywhere else, e-filing exists only where the superior court has joined the state system, eFileWA. Its court chart (read 2 October 2026) lists fourteen superior courts, all “Permissive” (paper still accepted) and all taking family filings except Whatcom: Adams, Columbia, Franklin, Garfield, Grays Harbor, Kitsap, Lewis, Okanogan, Pacific, San Juan, Snohomish, Whatcom (not family), Whitman and Yakima. A county that is not King, Pierce or on that chart has no e-filing route on the state system, which for a divorce means paper.
Paper
Still accepted — you can file over the counter.
What it costs
King County: 'E-filing via the KC Script Portal is free for most documents; however, some documents require a fee to file by law.' Snohomish County: no fee for using eFile & Serve itself; statutory filing fees apply. Card surcharge: King County: '$2.49 processing fee for credit card transactions.' Snohomish County: 'an eCommerce transaction fee which shall be applied for each electronic payment (2.89% of total fees for credit and debit cards).'
Worth knowing
Washington settles this at the state level in your favor. GR 30 only lets a county make e-filing mandatory for attorneys, and it requires that e-filing not become a barrier to access. King, Pierce and Snohomish all follow that: attorneys must, you may. Pierce puts it most plainly — self-represented parties are not required to e-file but can ask the Clerk for an account. The state system says the same for every county on it: “If eFiling is available for your Court and you do not have an attorney, you may eFile or submit paper documents to the Court. eFiling is encouraged but not mandatory for self-represented litigants” (eFileWA, self-represented filers, read 2 October 2026). The thing to check first is not whether you may e-file but whether your county offers it at all — most do not. The Washington State Law Library pointed us to the county chart on 2 October 2026. Watch the card fees rather than the filing method: King charges a flat $2.49 to pay by card, Snohomish charges 2.89% of the total, which on a filing fee of a few hundred dollars is the more expensive of the two.
King

LGR 30 — 'Non-attorneys are not required to e-file but may do so.' Attorneys who paper-file without a waiver are charged a fee under King County Code 4A.630.060. source

Pierce

PCLGR 30 — 'Self-represented parties are not required to e-file documents but may contact the Clerk's Office to obtain a LINX account.' Attorney paper filings without a waiver may be rejected and returned. source

Snohomish

'Attorneys must electronically file (e-file) court documents using the Clerk's online eFile & Serve (EFS) e-filing system'; non-attorneys are encouraged to e-file but are not required to do so. source

What we could not confirm: King County’s own page does not say in so many words that you may walk in with paper; that follows from its local rule not requiring you to e-file. Pierce County states it directly.

Step one — download them free

All Washington State Courts family law forms live here, at no cost:

courts.wa.gov/forms — Dissolution (Divorce) forms

Always download fresh

Don’t reuse a saved copy or a form a friend sent you. Several of the forms in your list were revised as recently as January and June 2026 — the revision date is printed in the footer of every form, and clerks can reject a superseded version.

Step two — fill them in, and sign under penalty of perjury (no notary needed for most of it)

This is the part that surprises people coming from another state’s process. Almost every Washington family law form — the Petition, the Financial Declaration, the Confidential Information form, the Findings and Final Order — is signed with a plain statement: “I declare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the State of Washington that the facts I have provided on this form are true.” You sign it yourself. No notary, no witness, no trip to a UPS Store.

There is one real exception: if your Proof of Personal Service was completed by someone who served your spouse outside Washington State, that server’s signature does need to be notarized or sworn before a court clerk. Personal service completed inside Washington does not.

Fill in every field

Type directly into the PDF (these are fillable forms), or print and use black ink. Leave nothing blank — write “N/A” where something doesn’t apply. Incomplete forms are the most common reason a filing gets sent back.

Step three — keep your Confidential Information form separate

Form FL All Family 001 carries your Social Security number, address, and (if you have kids) your children’s information. It is not a public record — clerks are instructed not to file it in the public case file, and your spouse and their lawyer generally can’t see it without a court order. File it as its own document, not stapled inside your petition.

The same rule applies to your financial records

Under GR 22(c)(2), supporting financial records (tax returns, pay stubs) that go with your Financial Declaration are filed separately using the Sealed Financial Source Documents cover sheet (FL All Family 011) — not attached to the Financial Declaration itself, and not left sitting in the open case file.

Step four — file, and understand who serves whom

You file at the superior court clerk’s office in the county where you or your spouse lives. Washington’s e-filing systems vary by county (many use the statewide portal at courts.wa.gov or a county-specific e-filing site), but walking paper into the clerk’s office is always allowed for self-represented filers.

Washington’s “service” rules genuinely branch three ways, and this is where the quiz above matters: your spouse can (a) sign the Petition or a Joinder with you as a true joint filing, (b) sign a Service Accepted form — acknowledging they received the papers without agreeing to anything in them, which skips the process-server fee, or (c) be formally served by the sheriff or any adult who isn’t a party to the case, which starts their clock whether they cooperate or not.

If your spouse can’t be found

Washington allows service by publication when personal service isn’t possible, but that path has its own rules and can limit what the court can award without further steps — this is a genuine case for talking to a lawyer or your county’s family law facilitator before you proceed.

4 · Your deadlines, calculated

Nearly everything in a Washington dissolution counts from two dates — when you filed, and when your spouse was served or joined the case. Put them in and we’ll turn Washington’s rules into actual dates on your calendar — then add the whole thing to Google Calendar, Apple Calendar or Outlook in one click.

Date you filed the petition
Leave blank if you haven’t filed yet
Date your spouse was served, joined, or accepted service
Whichever of the three applies to you
Do you have minor children together?

5 · The order it actually happens in

1
Confirm eligibility and pick your county
RCW 26.09.030 — one of you must currently be a Washington resident or a member of the armed forces stationed here. There is no minimum length of time you have to have lived here — that’s unusual, most states require 6–12 months. File in the superior court of the county where either of you lives.
2
Fill out and sign your petition packet
Petition for Divorce (FL Divorce 201) plus the Confidential Information form (FL All Family 001), filed separately. Sign under penalty of perjury — no notary required for these.
3
File and pay the fee
$364 at the clerk’s window (verified identical in King, Pierce, and Spokane counties) — or file Form GR 34 to ask the court to waive it. This is when your filing clock starts.
4
Your spouse joins, accepts service, or is served then 20 or 60 days to respond
A Joinder (FL All Family 119) if they’re co-filing, a Service Accepted form (FL All Family 117) if they’ll cooperate, or formal personal service via the Summons (FL Divorce 200) if not. Whichever it is, this date starts their own clock.
5
Wait out the 90 days from filing AND from service — no exceptions
RCW 26.09.030: the court cannot enter a decree until 90 days have elapsed since both the petition was filed and your spouse was served (or the first publication ran). Unlike some states, Washington has no fast-track exception to this — it applies even to a fully agreed, no-kids, five-minute case.
6
If your spouse never responds, consider a default
Once their response deadline passes with nothing filed, you can move forward with a Motion for Default (FL All Family 161) and Order on Motion for Default (FL All Family 162) — the court can only grant what you asked for in the Petition, not more.
7
Finish the Findings and Final Order
Findings and Conclusions About a Marriage (FL Divorce 231) and the Final Divorce Order (FL Divorce 241). If you have children, add the Parenting Plan, Child Support Order, and Washington State Child Support Schedule Worksheets.
8
Get the judge’s signature
Many counties let agreed, uncontested cases be “presented” on paper through the ex parte or family law calendar without a hearing — ask your county’s family law facilitator. Contested cases get a trial date. Either way, file the DOH Certificate of Dissolution (form 422-027) with your final paperwork — it’s how the state’s vital records office learns your case closed.

6 · Washington’s trap

This is the one that catches people who’ve read one paragraph about “community property” and think they already know how their case will go.

“Community property state” does not mean an automatic, protected 50/50 split

Washington is a community property state, and people often assume that means two simple buckets: community property gets split evenly, and separate property (what you owned before the marriage, or inherited) is untouchable. That’s not what the statute says. RCW 26.09.080 requires the court to divide the property and liabilities of the parties — “either community or separate” — in whatever way is “just and equitable” after weighing factors like the length of the marriage and each spouse’s economic circumstances. A judge can reach into separate property, and the outcome is not guaranteed to be an even split of anything. If your case involves inherited assets, a big gap in earning power, or property owned before the marriage, this is exactly the kind of thing worth a paid consultation before you sign a settlement — not after.

7 · The rejection-proofing checklist

These are the specific things that get Washington filings sent back or slow a case down. None of them are hard — they’re just easy to miss once.

Signing and filing correctly

Forms people forget

Timing

Two clocks, not one

The 90-day wait runs from both your filing date and your spouse’s service/join date — whichever is later controls. Filing early doesn’t buy you anything if service happens late. And your spouse’s response window is 20 days if they were served inside Washington, 60 days if served out of state or in a jail or detention facility — mixing those two numbers up is one of the most common self-represented mistakes.

8 · The Financial Declaration — what FL All Family 131 requires

Mandatory under RCW 26.18.220(1) any time finances are at issue — which is almost every case. It’s filed with the court, not just exchanged, and it’s a sworn statement, not a draft.

Keep the backup documents separate

Don’t staple your tax returns or pay stubs to the Financial Declaration itself. File them under the Sealed Financial Source Documents cover sheet (FL All Family 011) so they’re sealed from the general public record under GR 22(c)(2), even though the other party, their lawyer, and the court can still see them.

9 · What this costs

ItemCost
Filing fee — verified identical at $364 in King, Pierce, and Spokane county superior courts$364
Personal service by sheriff or a licensed process server, per person (member-reported, illustrative)~$50–120
Parenting seminar, per parent, if your county requires one and you have children (set by local court rule — check with your county clerk)check w/ county
DOH Certificate of Dissolution recording, vital records copy fee~$5–20
Service by publication, if you can’t locate your spouse$100+
Typical all-in, doing it yourselves, no attorney$400–500
Typical range with a family law attorney (member-reported, illustrative demo data — varies enormously by county and complexity)$3,500–12,000+
If you can’t afford the filing fee

File Form GR 34, the Motion and Declaration for Waiver of Filing Fees. You qualify if your household income is at or below 125% of the federal poverty guideline, you’re already receiving need-based assistance like TANF or SSI, or you can show recurring expenses that leave you unable to pay. There’s no local fee to apply, and the court must review it in a timely manner.

Free help exists — ask before you pay for it

Most Washington counties have a Family Court Facilitator, funded in part by a small statutory surcharge (up to $20, RCW 26.12.240) built into your filing fee. They can’t give legal advice, but they review paperwork, answer procedural questions, and in King County specifically, run a no-fee Simple Dissolution Program for agreed cases with no children and no substantial property. That program is local to King County — it isn’t a statewide track, so check whether your own county runs something similar.

Does cheating change the money in Washington?

No — the court is forbidden to weigh it at all. The rule: “without regard to misconduct” (RCW 26.09.090(1)). How all fifty states answer this.

Reconciled, and it did not work? No fault ground survives in Washington, so forgiving an affair cannot cost you the divorce — which is an answer rather than a gap: condonation, state by state. If the decision itself is what you are sitting with rather than the law, start here.

What this is. A guide to Washington’s own process, built from the Revised Code of Washington (chapters 26.09, 26.12, 26.18, and 36.18), General Rule 34, and the official mandatory family law forms and instructions published by the Washington State Courts at courts.wa.gov/forms. Every form referenced here was confirmed to download successfully directly from courts.wa.gov at the time this guide was built. The forms themselves are free and this guide links you to them rather than reselling them.

What this is not. The Cusp is not a law firm and does not practice law. Nothing here is legal advice, and nothing here tells you which choice is right for your particular situation — only what Washington requires of each path. If your case involves contested custody, a business, significant separate or inherited property, domestic violence, or a spouse with a lawyer, talk to an attorney. Many offer free consultations, and one hour of advice is cheaper than a property division you can’t undo. Court staff — including family court facilitators — are not permitted to give legal advice.

Confirm current numbers with your county. Filing fees were independently verified at $364 in King, Pierce, and Spokane counties; other counties are very likely the same but were not individually checked. Process-server costs, parenting-seminar requirements and fees, and attorney cost ranges are illustrative, member-reported figures, not official rates — where this guide could not verify an exact figure with confidence, it says “check with your county superior court clerk” rather than guessing.

Authority: RCW 26.09.030 — residency, the irretrievable-breakdown allegation and the 90-day floor are all in its opening sentence — read it on Washington’s own site. Checked 15 Sep 2026.
Next step
Before you do anything with the house

Four things can happen to the house in a Washington divorce

Washington is not one of the twenty states where filing freezes both spouses automatically. That is not permission to sell: either of you can still ask a court for an order, and one may already exist in your case. But the automatic-order trap is not one you fall into here.

One of you buys the other out, you sell later, you sell now, or the court decides. For a great many people the right answer is not to sell at all – and three of the four routes earn us nothing.

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The decree is not the last deadline

The most expensive mistakes in a divorce are made in the year after it, by people who thought the case was over. After the divorce is the checklist for that year — the health-coverage clock, the retirement order a decree cannot replace, and the beneficiary form that outranks your will.

When people ask what they can do

Filing is one household becoming two, and the second one starts empty. The two-household list is what to send the people who keep asking how they can help — the second of everything, and the half of it that costs nothing. Some people call it a divorce registry.

Sources last checked14 September 2026
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Common questions about filing for divorce in Washington

Short answers to what people ask most before they start. Each one points at the part of this page that covers it in full.

How do I file for divorce in Washington?

This page sets out the order it happens in for Washington: which form opens the case, what has to be served on the other person and when, and what the court needs before it will finish. It is written to be followed in sequence rather than read through.

What forms do I need to file for divorce in Washington?

The form list on this page gives the official Washington form numbers, each one’s revision date, and a link to the copy on the court’s own site rather than a copy hosted here. Using a superseded revision is one of the most common reasons a filing comes back, which is why the dates are shown.

How much does it cost to file for divorce in Washington?

$364 to open the case, and that is only the filing fee — it does not cover service, copies, any required class, or a lawyer. The full breakdown for Washington, with every figure traced to the court’s own published schedule and dated, is at what it costs to file in Washington.

What gets a Washington divorce filing rejected?

This page has a section on exactly that — the specific mistakes that get a filing returned in Washington rather than a general list. Most of them are procedural and cost weeks rather than money: the wrong form revision, a missing signature or notarization, service done in a way the state does not accept, or filing before a residency requirement is met.

How long does a divorce take in Washington?

There is a timeline on this page built from Washington’s own statutory day-counts, not from averages. The honest short answer is that the waiting period is a floor and not a prediction: an uncontested case can finish close to it, and a contested one is governed by the court’s calendar rather than the statute.

Where does the information on this page come from?

Washington’s own courts and statutes. Every form links to the court’s site, every fee is quoted from the published schedule with the date it was last checked, and where something could not be confirmed from an official source this site says so instead of estimating. It is free, with no account and no paywall.

Does cheating change the money in Washington?

No, and that is a deliberate choice in the statute rather than a gap in it. Washington forbids the court to weigh marital misconduct when it sets spousal support, so evidence of an affair does not help you there and gathering it may cost money for nothing. Ten states do this, most of them in the same six words. The fifty-state table sets out the section this comes from, and the card higher up this page quotes your state’s own words.

If the house is being sold as part of a Washington divorce

Choosing an agent for a divorce sale is a different problem from choosing one for an ordinary sale: who the agent is allowed to talk to, who has to sign, what happens when one of you will not, and the three separate conflicts of interest that come up when one spouse found the agent first. How to choose a real estate agent for a divorce sale sets out what to ask, and how to check a credential yourself — no divorce credential is official with the National Association of Realtors.

The Cusp receives a referral fee from agents it vets and trains to handle divorce clients.

Key deadlines at a glance

These are the same deadlines the calculator above works out, shown as days counted from the day you file or the day your spouse is served. Use the calculator for your exact dates.

No minor children

StepWhenWhat it means
Petition filedThe day you fileYour filing clock starts here. The fee is $364 (verified identical in King, Pierce, and Spokane counties) unless the court grants a GR 34 fee waiver.
Spouse served, joined, or accepted serviceThe day your spouse is served (or signs a waiver)Their own clock starts now.
Response due (if served inside Washington)20 days after service20 days from service. Use 60 days instead if service happened outside Washington or in a jail/detention facility.
90 days from filing90 days after filingOne half of Washington’s dual clock — RCW 26.09.030. A decree can’t be entered before this date, no matter what.
90 days from service90 days after serviceThe other half of the dual clock. Whichever of the two 90-day dates is later is your real earliest possible finalization date.

With minor children

StepWhenWhat it means
Petition filedThe day you fileYour filing clock starts here. The fee is $364 (verified identical in King, Pierce, and Spokane counties) unless the court grants a GR 34 fee waiver.
Spouse served, joined, or accepted serviceThe day your spouse is served (or signs a waiver)Their own clock starts now.
Response due (if served inside Washington)20 days after service20 days from service. Use 60 days instead if service happened outside Washington or in a jail/detention facility.
90 days from filing90 days after filingOne half of Washington’s dual clock — RCW 26.09.030. A decree can’t be entered before this date, no matter what.
90 days from service90 days after serviceThe other half of the dual clock. Whichever of the two 90-day dates is later is your real earliest possible finalization date.
Confirm your county’s parenting seminar requirement90 days after serviceSet by local court rule, not state law — some counties require it before final orders. Check with your county clerk or family law facilitator.

Your county

Divorce rules are set by the state, but each county or court has its own forms, deadlines, classes and filing habits. Choose yours.

Washington uses statewide divorce forms, and each superior court adds its own local rules and procedures. The state courts site lists local rules by court, but the county clerk is the place to confirm the current set. Counties differ most in how courthouse family law facilitators work: how you book, what it costs, and when they are available. Parenting class requirements and providers also vary by county. See the official local rules index · statewide forms.

Clark County

In Clark County the family court facilitator costs $20 for a 20-minute appointment, paid at the Clerk’s Office when you book. You must book in person, as phone scheduling is not offered. The county sells paper form packets, $30 for a divorce without children and $50 with children. Facilitator hours are unclear on the page, so confirm before going.

Who to contact: Clark County Courthouse, 1200 Franklin Street, Vancouver, WA 98660; (564) 397-2292; countyclerk@clark.wa.gov

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King County

King County has family law facilitator help desks in Kent and Seattle for people without an attorney. Facilitators generally need a scheduled appointment for phone or email help, and you must complete your paperwork first. The county also offers a ‘What about the Children’ seminar and an online-signup Family Law Orientation. Walk-in days are described inconsistently, so check before going.

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Pierce County

In Pierce County, court facilitator appointments are booked by phone during an 8 to 9 a.m. window and cost $20 for 30 minutes. If you have not done a parenting seminar, you choose from a county provider list. Uncontested final hearings are requested by email with your name and case number.

Who to contact: Court Facilitators (253) 798-3627, 8-9 a.m. to make an appointment

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Snohomish County

Snohomish County’s courthouse facilitator costs $25 per visit, paid online only after an appointment is scheduled, with no refunds. You book by calling and leaving a message. There are afternoon walk-in hours for quick procedural questions and morning phone hours. The Clerk’s Office sells self-help packets for divorce and related cases.

Who to contact: Family Law Facilitator 425-388-3795 (leave a message), Room 1-525, Snohomish County Courthouse

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Spokane County

Spokane County’s family court facilitator offers 20-minute appointments each day in Room 200 of the courthouse. The county names a required parenting class called Share the Children. A fee waiver request (GR34) is presented to the ex parte court in Courtroom 202. The facilitator page does not state a fee.

Who to contact: Family Court Facilitator 509-477-7612, Room 200, Spokane County Courthouse

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Thurston County

Thurston County’s court facilitator is by appointment only, at $25 per 30 minutes paid before booking. Each parent must take a 4-hour parenting class within 45 days of filing or being served. The class is run by Family Education & Support Services.

Who to contact: Facilitator email clerkformsreview@co.thurston.wa.us; Family and Juvenile Court, 2801 32nd Ave SW, Tumwater, WA 98512; parenting class provider 360-754-7629

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Not listed? Your county clerk of court can tell you the local rules. These are general information from court and clerk pages, last checked 2026-11-10, not legal advice.

Serving the papers in Washington? Sheriff, or an adult over 18 who is not a party; not you. Deadline: 90 days. (As we read the rules on 29 October 2026.) See who can serve a divorce summons and whether you can do it yourself, and find Washington in our state-by-state serving table.

How we can help

Understand the house first. Then talk to someone who gets it.

The house is usually the largest decision in a divorce, and the one people are least ready for. Here is what we do, in the order that makes sense.

1. Start with the facts, free

22 states have automatic orders that freeze both spouses the moment a divorce is filed, barring either one from selling or borrowing against the property. Is yours one of them?

Plain-English guides on what can happen to the house, what an automatic order stops you doing, and how the tax rules decide what a sale is worth. No account and nothing to buy.

2. Know when not to call an agent

Often the right answer is to wait, or to talk to your lawyer or an accountant first. We say so plainly. An agent is the wrong first call if nothing is filed, or if an order restricts what either of you can do with the property.

3. Talk to someone who gets it

When you do need an agent, we introduce you to a local agent who has completed our divorce real estate training and passed its 20-question exam. Before any introduction we check the license with the state regulator (any unresolved disciplinary action is a no), the agent’s closed sales, and a review rating of 4.7 or better. The introduction is free, and you are free to say no.

Ask for an introduction

How we are paid

You pay us nothing. Agents are not charged for the training, the exam or the free resources. If an introduction leads to a closed sale, the agent’s brokerage pays a referral fee out of its own commission, not out of your proceeds. A place on the panel cannot be bought.

General information, not legal or tax advice. The Cusp is not a law firm.

Selling a home in a divorce: what to ask a local listing agent

Selling the house is often the largest single decision in a divorce. These questions help you judge whether an agent has done it before. They do not replace your lawyer, who should approve the plan before anything is listed.

  • Have you sold homes where both spouses had to sign, or where a court had to approve the sale? How many, and how recently?
  • Does filing already restrain a sale in my state? Check the 50-state table and ask my lawyer before we sign anything.
  • Who decides on price changes and which offers to accept when we disagree, and how will that be written down?
  • Who pays the mortgage, taxes and insurance until closing, and what does the listing agreement say about it?
  • Where will the sale proceeds be held until the decree says who gets what?
  • How will you handle showings, access and lockboxes if we are not speaking?
  • Will you give both spouses and both lawyers the same information at the same time?
  • What happens to the listing agreement if we settle, reconcile or the case is delayed? What are the cancellation terms?
  • Can I have your fee terms in writing and the names of past clients who sold during a divorce?