Your divorce plan · all 50 states · nothing leaves your browser

Your divorce plan, in the order things happen

A wedding has a checklist. So should this. Answer a few questions and you get one list, in order, from the first week to the year after, with the page for each step one click away. Tick things off as you go. Your ticks are kept only in this browser, and nothing is sent anywhere.

A checklist on a clipboard A clipboard holding a list of four lines, the first three ticked.

This is an organizer, not legal advice. It does not choose your forms or tell you what your state’s law means for your case. What it does is put the steps most people go through in a sensible order, and show the facts your state publishes next to them, so that you are never wondering what comes next. Every step links to a page on this site where the detail lives, with its sources.

Six questions

Skip any you do not know. The list updates as you answer.

Where are you in this?
Children under 18?
The home
Anything else to divide?
How is it between you?
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Where the state facts come from

The filing fee, waiting period, residency and e-filing lines above are read live from Divorce laws by state, where each one is traced to the state’s own court or statute pages, so a correction there shows up here too. Fees change and many vary by county, so confirm with your court clerk before you file. When we find something wrong, it goes on Where we were wrong.

Next: what will it cost?

Your state’s filing fee plus what people report paying for everything else.

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The Cusp is not a law firm and does not provide legal, financial, or clinical advice. This page is an organizer. It does not apply the law to your situation and it does not select forms for you. For advice about your own case, talk to a licensed attorney in your state, or start with legal aid if cost is the obstacle. The founder is a licensed real estate agent and may earn a referral fee where a page on this site introduces you to an agent; that is always said on the page where it happens.